Every time we choose, we add to or take away the fruitfulness of our life. Before I answer the call of some desire, or give expression to some feeling, let me deliberately pause and measure if I am adding to or taking from my joy and peace.
“Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.” Song of Solomon 2 Conversations Within” ts
My spouse has nurtured a wise way of responding to my silly complaints. She just shrugs and says, “That’s just life.” You could say she shrugs these inconveniences of life off her shoulders. She has learned to dismiss matters over which she has no control, and refuses to let them steal her peace.
“Nothing can separate us from the love of God…” Rom.8
I see the wisdom of anchoring a new habit to one that I already practice. For instance, I can take my vitamins when I brush my teeth. I can also use the pain and regret of a bad habit to encourage me to establish a healthy one. Suffering is as much a part of growth as are the rewards for enduring it.
“...discipline yourself for the purpose of godliness. 1Tim.4 Conversations Within” ts Aug 6, 2026
After explaining what two greatest commandments are, the rest of the Bible is mainly wisdom on how we can effectively love.
“Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts Aug 6, 2026
Pursue a life of loving and serving others, and you will never need a backup plan. Here is a dream worth chasing, and one that brings perfect satisfaction. Love is its own reward and the wholeness it brings will follow us forever.
“Pursue love.” 1Cor.
