A whole new world!

No doubt, the coming of the New Year will still see a great deal of the same old stuff. War and human selfishness will still be with us this next year. Happily, Jesus did not say I will make all things new. He said, I am making all things new. Everyone who trusts in Him helps to usher in this newness, and we do so every time we say, “No” to selfishness and yes to loving others.

“And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” Rev.21 Conversations Within” ts 12/24/2016

A whole new world!

No doubt, the coming of the New Year will still see a great deal of the same old stuff. War and human selfishness will still be with us this next year. Happily, Jesus did not say I will make all things new. He said, I am making all things new. Everyone who trusts in Him helps to usher in this newness, and we do so every time we say, “No” to selfishness and yes to loving others.

“And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” Rev.21 Conversations Within” ts 12/24/2016

"Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once we grow up." Pablo Picasso

Because we were made in the Image, we were designed to live creative lives. Create! Sculpt something of beauty with the life God has given. Paint with compassion, sing with words of comfort. Be your own work of art. Follow in the steps of your Father and overflow with creative goodness. Make the world new with the brushstrokes of creative love.

“In the beginning God created...”  Gen.1 Conversations Within” ts 12/23/2016

"Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once we grow up." Pablo Picasso

Because we were made in the Image, we were designed to live creative lives. Create! Sculpt something of beauty with the life God has given. Paint with compassion, sing with words of comfort. Be your own work of art. Follow in the steps of your Father and overflow with creative goodness. Make the world new with the brushstrokes of creative love.

“In the beginning God created...”  Gen.1 Conversations Within” ts 12/23/2016

“It is about your outlook towards life. You can either regret or rejoice.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

Our inner eye will determine our outlook on life. Are my eyes clear or cloudy? Am I inclined to see beauty or ugliness? Do I look with hope for the best, or with doubt, imagine the worst? Let the light of love fill us with a fresh vision of the goodness that surrounds us. Greet the morning with grateful praise and gaze at God’s goodness throughout the day. Retire each evening recounting every blessing and resting in hope of a brighter and better day tomorrow.  

“The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/22/2016

“It is about your outlook towards life. You can either regret or rejoice.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

Our inner eye will determine our outlook on life. Are my eyes clear or cloudy? Am I inclined to see beauty or ugliness? Do I look with hope for the best, or with doubt, imagine the worst? Let the light of love fill us with a fresh vision of the goodness that surrounds us. Greet the morning with grateful praise and gaze at God’s goodness throughout the day. Retire each evening recounting every blessing and resting in hope of a brighter and better day tomorrow.  

“The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/22/2016

“New Year! New Me!” Meme

Most self-examining people have a pretty good handle on those things they would like to change about themselves. It is not enough just to pour out the pot of our negative thinking. We must put into the pot a new way of thinking and stir it with faith and action. Pour out self-centeredness and stir in a genuine concern for others. Someone said that instead of being a “Here I am!” kind of person, become a “There your are!” kind of person. We can decide to let the energy of our life flow out in service to others and discover the newness of living a life of love.  

“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Rom.12 Conversations Within” ts 12/21/2016

“New Year! New Me!” Meme

Most self-examining people have a pretty good handle on those things they would like to change about themselves. It is not enough just to pour out the pot of our negative thinking. We must put into the pot a new way of thinking and stir it with faith and action. Pour out self-centeredness and stir in a genuine concern for others. Someone said that instead of being a “Here I am!” kind of person, become a “There your are!” kind of person. We can decide to let the energy of our life flow out in service to others and discover the newness of living a life of love.  

“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Rom.12 Conversations Within” ts 12/21/2016

“Dear Santa, This year, please give me a big fat bank account and a slim body. And please don't mix those two up like you did last year.” Unknown

What are worthwhile goals? Losing weight and exercising more make a good many new year’s resolution lists. Someone has said, “Eat right, exercise, die anyway.” Of course, if the goal of doing these things is to improve the quality of one’s life, then such goals have value. I wonder how many of us have put, “Be more godly” on our list for next year? I am certain that if we incline our heart in the direction of pleasing God all our other activities will add to the quality of our life.

“For while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.” 1 Tim.4  Conversations Within” ts 12/20/2016

“Dear Santa, This year, please give me a big fat bank account and a slim body. And please don't mix those two up like you did last year.” Unknown

What are worthwhile goals? Losing weight and exercising more make a good many new year’s resolution lists. Someone has said, “Eat right, exercise, die anyway.” Of course, if the goal of doing these things is to improve the quality of one’s life, then such goals have value. I wonder how many of us have put, “Be more godly” on our list for next year? I am certain that if we incline our heart in the direction of pleasing God all our other activities will add to the quality of our life.

“For while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.” 1 Tim.4  Conversations Within” ts 12/20/2016

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” Carl Bard

There may be any number of things that we would change about our past. We of course cannot. The one thing we can do is learn from our bad choices and put our energy into making good choices right now. I think most of us think this way, especially as a new year approaches. It would be better if we thought this way at the beginning of every new day! Be where you are!

“The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” 2 Cor.5 Conversations Within” ts 12/19/2016

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” Carl Bard

There may be any number of things that we would change about our past. We of course cannot. The one thing we can do is learn from our bad choices and put our energy into making good choices right now. I think most of us think this way, especially as a new year approaches. It would be better if we thought this way at the beginning of every new day! Be where you are!

“The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” 2 Cor.5 Conversations Within” ts 12/19/2016

“We are Fam-i-ly!” Sister Sledge

And God said, “Let there be family.” How precious that God would share this gift with us. My wife tells me she can watch our family spending time together for hours at a time. God the Father probably feels the same way. I am sure He loves watching families loving each other. I can just see HIm poking Jesus in the side and saying, “Isn’t it great watching the family sitting around the table playing Phase 10.” I bet He really gets excited when a family decides to treat someone who is not family, like family.

“And I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord Almighty.” 2Cor.1 Conversations Within” ts 12/17/2016

“We are Fam-i-ly!” Sister Sledge

And God said, “Let there be family.” How precious that God would share this gift with us. My wife tells me she can watch our family spending time together for hours at a time. God the Father probably feels the same way. I am sure He loves watching families loving each other. I can just see HIm poking Jesus in the side and saying, “Isn’t it great watching the family sitting around the table playing Phase 10.” I bet He really gets excited when a family decides to treat someone who is not family, like family.

“And I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord Almighty.” 2Cor.1 Conversations Within” ts 12/17/2016

Christmas is all about family; namely God making His family bigger.

How wonderful it is to belong. It is a huge blessing to belong to a loving family and even more so when that family grows to include people who are not just blood relatives. To belong to the tribe of Christ is to have family from every tribe on the face of the earth. I guess we could say that such people are also related by blood--the blood of Christ. This common blood is experienced in a common commitment to one another.

“I'll make a great nation of your descendants, I'll bless you...and In you shall all the families of the earth be blessed.” Gen.12 Conversations Within” ts 12/16/2016

Christmas is all about family; namely God making His family bigger.

How wonderful it is to belong. It is a huge blessing to belong to a loving family and even more so when that family grows to include people who are not just blood relatives. To belong to the tribe of Christ is to have family from every tribe on the face of the earth. I guess we could say that such people are also related by blood--the blood of Christ. This common blood is experienced in a common commitment to one another.

“I'll make a great nation of your descendants, I'll bless you...and In you shall all the families of the earth be blessed.” Gen.12 Conversations Within” ts 12/16/2016

“Find your tribe, love them hard.” Unknown

To have a tribe of friends to play and pray with, whom you love and who love you is to have the greatest wealth. Family! There is only one proper way to love the people in our life. I appreciate the simple way the quote above puts it, “love them hard!” We love hard when we put our heart and soul in it. Love the people in your tribe with purpose and on purpose.

“Love one another as I have loved you.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/15/2016

“Find your tribe, love them hard.” Unknown

To have a tribe of friends to play and pray with, whom you love and who love you is to have the greatest wealth. Family! There is only one proper way to love the people in our life. I appreciate the simple way the quote above puts it, “love them hard!” We love hard when we put our heart and soul in it. Love the people in your tribe with purpose and on purpose.

“Love one another as I have loved you.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/15/2016

“Ohana means family. Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten,” Lilo and stitch

Family is all about acceptance and love. Not that family accepts or enables bad behavior, In fact it has been observed by many that healthy families may love us and accept us as we are, but they also love us enough not to leave us that way. Family will do what is necessary to make sure the whole family arrives together. Where strong families are concerned, it is never enough just to make it, but to make it together.

“Build up hope so you’ll all be together in this, no one left out, no one left behind.” 1Thess.5 MSG Conversations Within” ts 12/14/2016

“Ohana means family. Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten,” Lilo and stitch

Family is all about acceptance and love. Not that family accepts or enables bad behavior, In fact it has been observed by many that healthy families may love us and accept us as we are, but they also love us enough not to leave us that way. Family will do what is necessary to make sure the whole family arrives together. Where strong families are concerned, it is never enough just to make it, but to make it together.

“Build up hope so you’ll all be together in this, no one left out, no one left behind.” 1Thess.5 MSG Conversations Within” ts 12/14/2016

“We may not have it all together, but together we have it all.” Unknown

I know a few people that seem to have their act together, but I am pretty sure their family knows better. Mine does! The truth is that no one has it all together and the point isn’t trying to convince others that we do. The point is that healthy families go through the life’s ups and downs and go through them together. Trying to get our act together reminds me of a line in the movie, “The Legend of Bagger Vance.” “Golf is a game that can't be won only played.” Thank God, family means we don’t have to play alone.

“Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” Gal.6  Conversations Within” ts 12/13/2016

“We may not have it all together, but together we have it all.” Unknown

I know a few people that seem to have their act together, but I am pretty sure their family knows better. Mine does! The truth is that no one has it all together and the point isn’t trying to convince others that we do. The point is that healthy families go through the life’s ups and downs and go through them together. Trying to get our act together reminds me of a line in the movie, “The Legend of Bagger Vance.” “Golf is a game that can't be won only played.” Thank God, family means we don’t have to play alone.

“Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” Gal.6  Conversations Within” ts 12/13/2016

“The best gift around any Christmas tree is the presence of a happy family wrapped in love.” Burton Hills

Sometimes in my efforts to treat friends like family I have found myself not treating family like family. It is easy, because of misaligned priorities, to neglect those closest to you, and who is closer than family. Just as we can lose the meaning of Christmas in all the trappings surrounding it, we can also lose one of the great purposes of life if we fail to cherish and give family their proper place. We do well to remember that giving God the firstfruits of our energy starts at home.

“But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith” 1Tim.5 Conversations Within” ts 12/12/2016

“The best gift around any Christmas tree is the presence of a happy family wrapped in love.” Burton Hills

Sometimes in my efforts to treat friends like family I have found myself not treating family like family. It is easy, because of misaligned priorities, to neglect those closest to you, and who is closer than family. Just as we can lose the meaning of Christmas in all the trappings surrounding it, we can also lose one of the great purposes of life if we fail to cherish and give family their proper place. We do well to remember that giving God the firstfruits of our energy starts at home.

“But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith” 1Tim.5 Conversations Within” ts 12/12/2016

“A bad day for your ego is a great day for your soul.” Jillian Michaels

The best response when life humbles us is to humble ourselves even more. How do we humble ourselves? When the word humble is used as a verb, it means to lower. The idea is that we think too highly of ourselves, or too much of ourselves or simply too much about ourselves and this is bad. One way we can humble ourselves is by lifting others up and assigning a greater importance to their feelings and benefit than we do our own.

“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.’ Phil.2  Conversations Within” ts 12/10/2016

“A bad day for your ego is a great day for your soul.” Jillian Michaels

The best response when life humbles us is to humble ourselves even more. How do we humble ourselves? When the word humble is used as a verb, it means to lower. The idea is that we think too highly of ourselves, or too much of ourselves or simply too much about ourselves and this is bad. One way we can humble ourselves is by lifting others up and assigning a greater importance to their feelings and benefit than we do our own.

“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.’ Phil.2  Conversations Within” ts 12/10/2016

“Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.” H. Jackson Brown Jr

I saw a friend recently and greeted them by saying, “Hello Sunshine, you certainly are a ray of it.” It is wonderful to be in the presence of someone who radiates an enthusiasm for life, who spreads joy and happiness when you see them. People who are alive with life make others feel more alive. When people are in our presence, do we reflect gloom or gladness, do we communicate a bitter or a better outlook on life?

“You are the light of the world.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/9/2016

“Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.” H. Jackson Brown Jr

I saw a friend recently and greeted them by saying, “Hello Sunshine, you certainly are a ray of it.” It is wonderful to be in the presence of someone who radiates an enthusiasm for life, who spreads joy and happiness when you see them. People who are alive with life make others feel more alive. When people are in our presence, do we reflect gloom or gladness, do we communicate a bitter or a better outlook on life?

“You are the light of the world.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/9/2016

Learn how to ignore your own bad advice.

If we really desire positive change, we must surely stop listening to our own negative thoughts. This means learning how to say “No” to attitudes and actions that are bad for us. Faith, not feelings, should guide what roads we choose. Instead of listening to our own bad advice we can start trusting in God’s wisdom at the crossroads of life.

“On the heights beside the way, at the crossroads wisdom takes her stand; Prov.8 Conversations Within” ts 12/8/2016

Learn how to ignore your own bad advice.

If we really desire positive change, we must surely stop listening to our own negative thoughts. This means learning how to say “No” to attitudes and actions that are bad for us. Faith, not feelings, should guide what roads we choose. Instead of listening to our own bad advice we can start trusting in God’s wisdom at the crossroads of life.

“On the heights beside the way, at the crossroads wisdom takes her stand; Prov.8 Conversations Within” ts 12/8/2016

Picture in your mind a better you. Then start drawing your portrait with your thoughts, words, and actions.

Most of us recognize a good person when we see one, which means that we have some idea about what a good person looks like. Do I want to be a good person, a better person than I am? Most of us would say yes. We can picture that person, and then start to draw them in every interaction. We would be hard pressed to find a better person than the one described below:

“Put on...kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” Col.3 Conversations Within” ts 12/7/2016

Picture in your mind a better you. Then start drawing your portrait with your thoughts, words, and actions.

Most of us recognize a good person when we see one, which means that we have some idea about what a good person looks like. Do I want to be a good person, a better person than I am? Most of us would say yes. We can picture that person, and then start to draw them in every interaction. We would be hard pressed to find a better person than the one described below:

“Put on...kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” Col.3 Conversations Within” ts 12/7/2016

“I'm on the hunt for who I've not yet become.” Sara Bareilles

Lord help me see myself as You see me, and not only as I am, but as You want me to be. I see so much in me that needs change. There is way too much of me and I would see more of Christ. Raise me in the newness of love. Make me kind, and gentle, meek yet strong. I want to know only goodness in my thoughts, words and actions. I want to be the kind of person You can count on--ever faithful to You and the people in my life. Let’s do this!

“He must increase, but I must decrease.” John 3 Conversations Within” ts 12/6/2016

“I'm on the hunt for who I've not yet become.” Sara Bareilles

Lord help me see myself as You see me, and not only as I am, but as You want me to be. I see so much in me that needs change. There is way too much of me and I would see more of Christ. Raise me in the newness of love. Make me kind, and gentle, meek yet strong. I want to know only goodness in my thoughts, words and actions. I want to be the kind of person You can count on--ever faithful to You and the people in my life. Let’s do this!

“He must increase, but I must decrease.” John 3 Conversations Within” ts 12/6/2016

On being different.

Americans pride ourselves on our individuality. I suppose this is one way to be different. Perhaps a better way to be different is to get rid of the bad stuff in us. If I am selfish, let me be different and become giving. If I harbor hostilities toward others, let me be different and forgive. If I hate, let me love. If I doubt let me trust. If I am critical, let me be kind. I am sure God would love to help each of us develop a new vision of ourselves. Be different, but in ways that matter.

“Produce fruit in keeping with repentance.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/5/2016

On being different.

Americans pride ourselves on our individuality. I suppose this is one way to be different. Perhaps a better way to be different is to get rid of the bad stuff in us. If I am selfish, let me be different and become giving. If I harbor hostilities toward others, let me be different and forgive. If I hate, let me love. If I doubt let me trust. If I am critical, let me be kind. I am sure God would love to help each of us develop a new vision of ourselves. Be different, but in ways that matter.

“Produce fruit in keeping with repentance.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/5/2016

Wasted time will add up to wasted years, and will eventually add up to a wasted life.

Perhaps it would be wise to remind ourselves not just to avoid wasting time but also of those attitudes and actions that waste it. Jesus told us that everything associated with hate, selfishness, or pride are not only a complete waste of time, they will make a complete wasteland of our soul.  

“There is precious treasure and oil in the dwelling of the wise, But a foolish man swallows it up.” Prov.21 Conversations Within” ts 12/3/2016

Wasted time will add up to wasted years, and will eventually add up to a wasted life.

Perhaps it would be wise to remind ourselves not just to avoid wasting time but also of those attitudes and actions that waste it. Jesus told us that everything associated with hate, selfishness, or pride are not only a complete waste of time, they will make a complete wasteland of our soul.  

“There is precious treasure and oil in the dwelling of the wise, But a foolish man swallows it up.” Prov.21 Conversations Within” ts 12/3/2016

“Instead of saying ‘I don't have time,’ try saying ‘it's not a priority,’ and see how that feels. Laura Vanderkam

If we are too busy for family or friends to exercise, and certainly to spend time with God, then clearly our use of time reflects the priorities of a languishing soul. The use of our time is the true measure of what we really believe is important. Do not let the stuff of life rob you of your health, your relationships or your God.

“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts to wisdom.” Ps.90 Conversations Within” ts 12/2/2016

“Instead of saying ‘I don't have time,’ try saying ‘it's not a priority,’ and see how that feels. Laura Vanderkam

If we are too busy for family or friends to exercise, and certainly to spend time with God, then clearly our use of time reflects the priorities of a languishing soul. The use of our time is the true measure of what we really believe is important. Do not let the stuff of life rob you of your health, your relationships or your God.

“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts to wisdom.” Ps.90 Conversations Within” ts 12/2/2016

“No reason to stay is reason enough to leave.” Unknown

Be truly where you are and we soon realize if where we are is really where we want to be. If we embrace the moment and find it empty of anything of value, it is not the moment that needs to be changed, but what we are doing in it. Money is not the only currency. The time allotted to us has more value than money. Spend it purposefully and on matters that have lasting significance and value.

“Make the most of every opportunity.” Eph. 5 Conversations Within” ts 12/1/2016

“No reason to stay is reason enough to leave.” Unknown

Be truly where you are and we soon realize if where we are is really where we want to be. If we embrace the moment and find it empty of anything of value, it is not the moment that needs to be changed, but what we are doing in it. Money is not the only currency. The time allotted to us has more value than money. Spend it purposefully and on matters that have lasting significance and value.

“Make the most of every opportunity.” Eph. 5 Conversations Within” ts 12/1/2016

“Time is precious, waste it wisely.” Unknown

Time is the currency of life. Invest it wisely. The best use of time is to live gratefully, live wholeheartedly, and live a life of love and service. Always choose joy and the actions and attitudes that create and sustain it. The attitudes and actions of a grateful love powerfully accomplish this. Live each moment, not as if it were your last, but as the next bite of a continual feast.

“The cheerful of heart has a continual feast.” Prov.15 Conversations Within” ts 11/30/2016

“Time is precious, waste it wisely.” Unknown

Time is the currency of life. Invest it wisely. The best use of time is to live gratefully, live wholeheartedly, and live a life of love and service. Always choose joy and the actions and attitudes that create and sustain it. The attitudes and actions of a grateful love powerfully accomplish this. Live each moment, not as if it were your last, but as the next bite of a continual feast.

“The cheerful of heart has a continual feast.” Prov.15 Conversations Within” ts 11/30/2016

“Most things which are urgent are not important, and most things which are important are not urgent.” Dwight Eisenhower

Time is a valuable resource, so it seems prudent to spend it on matters that matter. One way to do this it to distinguish between the urgent and the important--the Eisenhower Decision Matrix. The urgent says do it now, even though it may not be important. Important matters have lasting value and significance, though they may not be urgent. Dating your spouse or playing with your kids may not be urgent, but they are important. Give priority to matters that do not necessarily demand your time, but nonetheless need your time.

For the grace of God... teaches us to say “No...” Titus 2 Conversations Within” ts 11/29/2016

“Most things which are urgent are not important, and most things which are important are not urgent.” Dwight Eisenhower

Time is a valuable resource, so it seems prudent to spend it on matters that matter. One way to do this it to distinguish between the urgent and the important--the Eisenhower Decision Matrix. The urgent says do it now, even though it may not be important. Important matters have lasting value and significance, though they may not be urgent. Dating your spouse or playing with your kids may not be urgent, but they are important. Give priority to matters that do not necessarily demand your time, but nonetheless need your time.

For the grace of God... teaches us to say “No...” Titus 2 Conversations Within” ts 11/29/2016

“The trouble is you think you have time.” Unknown

We will often make bad decisions because we foolishly believe that we have time to recover from them. There are a number of reasons why this is unwise. The first is that we are not guaranteed even the next hour. The second is that every time we make a bad choice, we reinforce a habit of making another. Not only are habits hard to break, we eventually become what we do and do and do.

“You do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.” James 4 Conversations Within” ts 11/28/2016

“The trouble is you think you have time.” Unknown

We will often make bad decisions because we foolishly believe that we have time to recover from them. There are a number of reasons why this is unwise. The first is that we are not guaranteed even the next hour. The second is that every time we make a bad choice, we reinforce a habit of making another. Not only are habits hard to break, we eventually become what we do and do and do.

“You do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.” James 4 Conversations Within” ts 11/28/2016

“If you don’t build your dreams, someone will hire you to help build theirs.” Tony Gaskin

It is one thing to be used by people and another to be useful to them. To take the reins of our own life does not mean that we cannot choose a life of service to others. Doing “our own thing” may mean that we purposely choose to come alongside others and help them. We can live for ourselves as we live for others. The point is to live decisively, deliberately, and on purpose--a good purpose.

“...be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work.” 2Tim.2 Conversations Within” ts 11/26/2016

“If you don’t build your dreams, someone will hire you to help build theirs.” Tony Gaskin

It is one thing to be used by people and another to be useful to them. To take the reins of our own life does not mean that we cannot choose a life of service to others. Doing “our own thing” may mean that we purposely choose to come alongside others and help them. We can live for ourselves as we live for others. The point is to live decisively, deliberately, and on purpose--a good purpose.

“...be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work.” 2Tim.2 Conversations Within” ts 11/26/2016

“But even before that, beneath the rocks… are the words of God.” A River Runs Through It

The ability to speak is a sacred privilege. Words express us. We reveal our very soul to others by what we say. It is no surprise that God’s word expresses God. He speaks and pours Himself out, not just “to” creation but “in” it. He speaks and voila! All creation springs into existence from the eternal spring of His word. “This is my Father's world, and to my listening ears all nature sings, and round me rings the music of the spheres.”

“In the beginning was the word.” John 1 Conversations Within” ts 11/25/2016

“But even before that, beneath the rocks… are the words of God.” A River Runs Through It

The ability to speak is a sacred privilege. Words express us. We reveal our very soul to others by what we say. It is no surprise that God’s word expresses God. He speaks and pours Himself out, not just “to” creation but “in” it. He speaks and voila! All creation springs into existence from the eternal spring of His word. “This is my Father's world, and to my listening ears all nature sings, and round me rings the music of the spheres.”

“In the beginning was the word.” John 1 Conversations Within” ts 11/25/2016

“Live life from within.”

Voices outside often scream for us to be afraid, or to worry. We can learn to silence them with the quiet inner word that assures us that all is well, when all is well with God. Life should be lived from the inside out, not vice-versa. Of course this is only true when our inner life has been healed of its divided heart. Once healed we can speak truth to ourselves. Peace always starts from within.

“The Kingdom of God is within you.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 11/24/2016

“Live life from within.”

Voices outside often scream for us to be afraid, or to worry. We can learn to silence them with the quiet inner word that assures us that all is well, when all is well with God. Life should be lived from the inside out, not vice-versa. Of course this is only true when our inner life has been healed of its divided heart. Once healed we can speak truth to ourselves. Peace always starts from within.

“The Kingdom of God is within you.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 11/24/2016

I am convinced that God gave us freedom because it is the only soil where the seeds of love can grow.

There is no such thing as forced love. To truly love, one must be free to not love. When we want someone to love us, we may offer our best inducements. We call it wooing. I am sure God does His share of this. When He woos us, He is telling us that to love Him in return is worth it.  In the end we must accept His proposal to share life together. This self-choice is also what we must absolutely grant to others if true love is to flourish.

“We love Him because He first loved us.” “Conversations Within” ts 11/23/2016

I am convinced that God gave us freedom because it is the only soil where the seeds of love can grow.

There is no such thing as forced love. To truly love, one must be free to not love. When we want someone to love us, we may offer our best inducements. We call it wooing. I am sure God does His share of this. When He woos us, He is telling us that to love Him in return is worth it.  In the end we must accept His proposal to share life together. This self-choice is also what we must absolutely grant to others if true love is to flourish.

“We love Him because He first loved us.” “Conversations Within” ts 11/23/2016

“Freedom is the power to choose your own chains.” Jean-Jacques Rousseau

The power to choose is a precious gift but one that can be abused, and with terrible consequence. Consider all the addictions that enslave us. It is wise to avoid making choices that take away freedom and embrace choices that promote it.  

“All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything. 1Cor.6 “Conversations Within” ts 11/22/2016

“Freedom is the power to choose your own chains.” Jean-Jacques Rousseau

The power to choose is a precious gift but one that can be abused, and with terrible consequence. Consider all the addictions that enslave us. It is wise to avoid making choices that take away freedom and embrace choices that promote it.  

“All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything. 1Cor.6 “Conversations Within” ts 11/22/2016

“A smart person knows what to say. A wise person knows whether to say it or not.” Unknown

One great aspect of self-control is simply knowing when to keep one’s mouth shut. Stopping a thought at the door of our lips expresses this self-mastery. Just because we have the freedom to say something, does not mean that we should. It is not just that “somethings are better left unsaid,” a lot of things are. We all talk entirely too much.

“Whoever guards his mouth and his tongue keeps his soul from troubles.” Prov.21 “Conversations Within” ts 11/21/2016

“A smart person knows what to say. A wise person knows whether to say it or not.” Unknown

One great aspect of self-control is simply knowing when to keep one’s mouth shut. Stopping a thought at the door of our lips expresses this self-mastery. Just because we have the freedom to say something, does not mean that we should. It is not just that “somethings are better left unsaid,” a lot of things are. We all talk entirely too much.

“Whoever guards his mouth and his tongue keeps his soul from troubles.” Prov.21 “Conversations Within” ts 11/21/2016

When we view life from the perspective of privilege, a humble appreciation warms all of our interactions.

The angel greeted Mary, the mother of Jesus, by calling her, “O favored one, the Lord is with you!” Could less be said of any of us who know the love of God? The single greatest privilege in life is to be loved and to love in return. Here is the meaning of life: to enjoy and be enjoyed, to love and be loved, to appreciate and be appreciated. Privileged indeed!

“Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you! Luke 1 “Conversations Within” ts 11/18/2016

When we view life from the perspective of privilege, a humble appreciation warms all of our interactions.

The angel greeted Mary, the mother of Jesus, by calling her, “O favored one, the Lord is with you!” Could less be said of any of us who know the love of God? The single greatest privilege in life is to be loved and to love in return. Here is the meaning of life: to enjoy and be enjoyed, to love and be loved, to appreciate and be appreciated. Privileged indeed!

“Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you! Luke 1 “Conversations Within” ts 11/18/2016

"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it." - William Arthur Ward

If we feel grateful, let us act grateful. And don’t just say it, show it. There are countless ways to express appreciation to a friend. The grateful heart is a generous heart. We have a saying that when it comes to giving “it is the thought that counts.” This doesn’t mean that the gift itself is unimportant, it means that people see how much thought is expressed in the gift. Tailored gifts are like tailored clothing, they fit better.

“I must perform my vows to you, O God; I will render thank offerings to you.” Ps.56 “Conversations Within” ts 11/17/2016

"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it." - William Arthur Ward

If we feel grateful, let us act grateful. And don’t just say it, show it. There are countless ways to express appreciation to a friend. The grateful heart is a generous heart. We have a saying that when it comes to giving “it is the thought that counts.” This doesn’t mean that the gift itself is unimportant, it means that people see how much thought is expressed in the gift. Tailored gifts are like tailored clothing, they fit better.

“I must perform my vows to you, O God; I will render thank offerings to you.” Ps.56 “Conversations Within” ts 11/17/2016

“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” John F. Kennedy

Thanksgiving is not just the giving of thanks but the giving of self. It would be hard to improve showing our appreciation to God for His many blessings than by being a blessing to Him in return. And what blesses God? In a word, He loves every expression of kindness. Be kind to family, friends, strangers, even animals and make God smile. Don’t just say it, show it.

“Bless the Lord O my soul and let all that is within me bless HIs holy name.” Ps.103 Conversations Within” ts 11/16/2016

“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” John F. Kennedy

Thanksgiving is not just the giving of thanks but the giving of self. It would be hard to improve showing our appreciation to God for His many blessings than by being a blessing to Him in return. And what blesses God? In a word, He loves every expression of kindness. Be kind to family, friends, strangers, even animals and make God smile. Don’t just say it, show it.

“Bless the Lord O my soul and let all that is within me bless HIs holy name.” Ps.103 Conversations Within” ts 11/16/2016

Fill your heart with the sweetness of grateful praise and there will be no room left for bitter complaint.

One way to measure the progress of gratefulness in our heart is by installing a complaint meter on our mouth. If we hear a complaint passing our lips, gratefulness is not flowing as it should in our heart.

“Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.” Eph.5 Conversations Within” ts 11/15/2016

Fill your heart with the sweetness of grateful praise and there will be no room left for bitter complaint.

One way to measure the progress of gratefulness in our heart is by installing a complaint meter on our mouth. If we hear a complaint passing our lips, gratefulness is not flowing as it should in our heart.

“Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.” Eph.5 Conversations Within” ts 11/15/2016

"I think the fall in Eden was ultimately a failure to give thanks." Ann Voskamp

Had Adam and Eve been grateful for all that had been provided them, they could have spared us all from the miseries of this fallen world. It is the blessed contentment of a grateful heart that can spare us many miseries. Perhaps we should make more of our decisions based on an appreciation for what God has provided, not based on our desires for more.

“But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content.” 1Tim.6 Conversations Within” ts 11/14/2016

"I think the fall in Eden was ultimately a failure to give thanks." Ann Voskamp

Had Adam and Eve been grateful for all that had been provided them, they could have spared us all from the miseries of this fallen world. It is the blessed contentment of a grateful heart that can spare us many miseries. Perhaps we should make more of our decisions based on an appreciation for what God has provided, not based on our desires for more.

“But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content.” 1Tim.6 Conversations Within” ts 11/14/2016

“You fight great, but I am a great fighter.” Apollo Creed (Rocky)

Have you ever sat down to a meal and forgot to give thanks? I try to practice giving thanks, but I am not sure that I consider myself a grateful person, at least not yet. I don’t want the giving of thanks to be an afterthought; I want it to be my every thought. I want gratitude to be as natural as breathing. I suppose the only way to become such a person is practice giving thanks until thanks is naturally all we give. Someone has said, "If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough."

“And be thankful.” Col.3 Conversations Within” ts 11/13/2016

“You fight great, but I am a great fighter.” Apollo Creed (Rocky)

Have you ever sat down to a meal and forgot to give thanks? I try to practice giving thanks, but I am not sure that I consider myself a grateful person, at least not yet. I don’t want the giving of thanks to be an afterthought; I want it to be my every thought. I want gratitude to be as natural as breathing. I suppose the only way to become such a person is practice giving thanks until thanks is naturally all we give. Someone has said, "If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough."

“And be thankful.” Col.3 Conversations Within” ts 11/13/2016

“Sometimes God will put a Goliath in your life, for you to find the David within you.” Unknown

There is a story about a farmer who was confronted by a neighbor about working his kids in the cornfield when all the other kids were playing in the creek. The farmer replied, “Friend, I’m not growing corn, I’m raising boys.” As a parent, God is not always interested in making our life comfortable, but making it conducive to our growth and maturity.

"But He knows the way I take; When He has tried me, I shall come forth as gold.” Job 23 Conversations Within” ts 11/12/2016

“Sometimes God will put a Goliath in your life, for you to find the David within you.” Unknown

There is a story about a farmer who was confronted by a neighbor about working his kids in the cornfield when all the other kids were playing in the creek. The farmer replied, “Friend, I’m not growing corn, I’m raising boys.” As a parent, God is not always interested in making our life comfortable, but making it conducive to our growth and maturity.

"But He knows the way I take; When He has tried me, I shall come forth as gold.” Job 23 Conversations Within” ts 11/12/2016

"There is something beautiful about a billion stars held steady by a God who knows what He is doing." Don Miller

Do you remember making a blanket tent in your bedroom as a child and how cool it was when mom and dad would come and sit in it with you? What a blanket of stars God has spread over us in the night sky. And, what is so vast and endless to us is nothing more than a bedroom blanket to Him, one that He has spread for His children. He even comes to sit with us under it. What a Dad!  

“When I consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, The moon and the stars, which You have ordained; What is man that You take thought of him, and the son of man that You care for him?” Ps.8 Conversations Within” ts 11/11/2016

"There is something beautiful about a billion stars held steady by a God who knows what He is doing." Don Miller

Do you remember making a blanket tent in your bedroom as a child and how cool it was when mom and dad would come and sit in it with you? What a blanket of stars God has spread over us in the night sky. And, what is so vast and endless to us is nothing more than a bedroom blanket to Him, one that He has spread for His children. He even comes to sit with us under it. What a Dad!  

“When I consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, The moon and the stars, which You have ordained; What is man that You take thought of him, and the son of man that You care for him?” Ps.8 Conversations Within” ts 11/11/2016

“Where there is no hope in the future, there is no power in the present.” John Maxwell

Future hope empowers the present. When we believe in tomorrow we are motivated to work today. Find strength this day in the knowledge that God has promised a future, that time which may be limited here is without bounds in the life which is to come. The branches of eternal life have their roots in the soil of today. The roots of today are nourished by the branches of hope reaching upward toward life eternal.

“Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor have entered into the heart of man the things which God has prepared for those who love Him.” 2Cor.2  Conversations Within” ts 11/11/2016

“Where there is no hope in the future, there is no power in the present.” John Maxwell

Future hope empowers the present. When we believe in tomorrow we are motivated to work today. Find strength this day in the knowledge that God has promised a future, that time which may be limited here is without bounds in the life which is to come. The branches of eternal life have their roots in the soil of today. The roots of today are nourished by the branches of hope reaching upward toward life eternal.

“Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor have entered into the heart of man the things which God has prepared for those who love Him.” 2Cor.2  Conversations Within” ts 11/11/2016

"The best way to predict the future is to create it." Abraham Lincoln

We make plans. It is my understanding that God ultimately decides if they will succeed or not. He grants us the great privilege of choice, but He is the final architect of the future. Our choices reflect one of the ways He governs. He desires that we want what is good, but will often allow us to choose what is bad to learn this. Any parent can see the wisdom of this approach. Wise parents also know that they must step in from time to time and save their children from bad choices.

“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” Prov.16 Conversations Within” ts 11/10/2016

"The best way to predict the future is to create it." Abraham Lincoln

We make plans. It is my understanding that God ultimately decides if they will succeed or not. He grants us the great privilege of choice, but He is the final architect of the future. Our choices reflect one of the ways He governs. He desires that we want what is good, but will often allow us to choose what is bad to learn this. Any parent can see the wisdom of this approach. Wise parents also know that they must step in from time to time and save their children from bad choices.

“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” Prov.16 Conversations Within” ts 11/10/2016

“The future is as bright as the promises of God.” William Carey

What is a future without hope? What is hope without a future? Both are God’s kind intentions for those who look to Him in faith. In the face of all the uncertainties of life, our hearts can rest in the knowledge that our future is as secure as the promises that God has made to us. We are promised not just to survive, but to prosper, and to prosper in every way that will matter to us when the new Earth moves through the stars of the new Heavens.  

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jer.29 Conversations Within” ts 11/7/2016

“The future is as bright as the promises of God.” William Carey

What is a future without hope? What is hope without a future? Both are God’s kind intentions for those who look to Him in faith. In the face of all the uncertainties of life, our hearts can rest in the knowledge that our future is as secure as the promises that God has made to us. We are promised not just to survive, but to prosper, and to prosper in every way that will matter to us when the new Earth moves through the stars of the new Heavens.  

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jer.29 Conversations Within” ts 11/7/2016

“I'm not afraid of tomorrow because I know God is already there.” Unknown

God is perfect in knowledge. His not only knows the future, He has made every provision for it. He knows exactly where we will be ten years, a hundred years from now. Our daily bread awaits us there. Before we ask, He has already answered. May the gentle breeze of this precious truth, fill the sails of our faith as we journey through this day into all our tomorrows.

“Before they call I will answer.” Is.65  Conversations Within” ts 11/6/2016