Boy, I can relate to this. I tend to be a rigger. Duct tape, and zip ties are favorites. This approach will often work in a pinch and get the job done, but on the whole I think it is better to use a more permanent approach. Certainly things like relationships require more than a zip tie, duct tape approach.
“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.” 2Tim.2.15 Conversations Within” ts 3/20/2022