I think one arena where we get into trouble is in our dialogue on moral and spiritual matters, especially with those who have a different background than our own. Somehow dialogue digresses into monologue, and we spend more energy trying to make our own point, rather than seeking to understand the others.
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.” Phil.2 Conversations Within ts 9/10/