My wife is a “matter of fact” kind of person. She doesn't waste energy on what is and can’t be changed. She simply accepts it, and deals with it as best she can. Her acceptance is more than an “O well, it is what it is” attitude. It is also adjusting expectations to the reality that God is at the helm steering the course of those who trust Him.
“You hold my future.” Ps.16 Conversations Within ts 12/