Love is principally an action sometimes motivated by feelings, sometimes not. As such, we can choose to love someone even if our feelings don't encourage us to do so. Feelings might have put us on the path of a relationship but it is our choices that keep us walking it.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” 1Cor.13 Conversations Within” ts 11/3/2021