Just me trying to be honest with God.

Friday, February 21, 2025

“Your quality will be known among your enemies, before ever you meet them.” Kingdom of Heaven

 Lord, teach me to embrace every single person with love and compassion, never with condescending judgment. You embrace me with unconditional love, I ask that no one will ever doubt that I too will receive them only with kindness. Like God we can hate the sin, but still love the sinner.

“Accept one another as Christ accepted you to bring praise to God.” Col.3.12 Conversations Within” ts 2/12/2025



Thursday, February 20, 2025

“We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us.” C. S. Lewis

 True happiness is first a choice to never settle for anything less than lasting happiness. Lord help me attach my happiness, not to temporal pleasures, but redeem even them, by committing my soul to the eternal pleasures of Heaven.

“Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life,and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.” Ps.23 Conversations Within” ts 2/11/2025



Wednesday, February 19, 2025

Make decisions in this moment that will only promote health and happiness in the next.

The word “only” defines the success of the encouragement above. Why would I want to think, say or do anything that does not promote health in myself, and in others. Lord, prepare me now for any temptation that would entice me to compromise lasting health and happiness.

"Be dressed in readiness, and keep your lamps lit.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 2/11/2025



Tuesday, February 18, 2025

What I want most

After years of reflection, I have concluded that what I want most is rather simple. I want the love of Christ to be the dynamic that defines my journey, and its light and joy, my constant companions. When I love as I should, I experience real and lasting happiness, untouched by all that is fading away.

“You have made known to me the path of life. In Your presence is fullness of joy and at Your right hand are pleasures forever.” Ps.16 Conversations Within” ts 2/11/2025



Monday, February 17, 2025

“The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want now.” Zig Ziglar

It is one thing to live “in” the moment, and another to live “for” the moment. The first is perfect focus, the latter is a kind of nearsightedness--the inability to see beyond a present desire. How important it is to define what I want most.

“cast down every imagination and every thought that exalts itself against the knowledge of God and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.” 2Cor.10 Conversations Within” ts 2/10/2025



Sunday, February 16, 2025

If I want to be healthy, then let me be happy.

Wisdom affirms the value of a merry heart for good health. Actually the word merry is often used in Scripture of celebrating, so we might say that there are health benefits when one knows how to party. “Don’t worry, be happy,” was certainly one of Jesus’ favorite topics and I am sure He would agree that if I want to be healthy, then I must fine tune what makes me happy.

“…the joy of the Lord is your strength.” Neh.8.10 "Conversations Within” ts 2/8/2025

                                    Photo Nadia Chonko 

Friday, February 14, 2025

One distinguishing mark of a follower of Jesus, is returning love to someone who hates you.

Loving like Jesus can be costly, but it is also rewarding in ways that defy imagination. Consider, I have the right as an American to prosecute a thief for stealing my coat, but as a Christian, I am given the privilege to win their heart by giving them my shirt as well. Jesus taught us that love has the power to transform an enemy into a friend. The love of Jesus is rad, if it is anything.

“But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, “ Jesus Conversations Within” ts 2/7/2025



Thursday, February 13, 2025

Change the world, one prayer at a time.

Lord forgive me for sometimes thinking that prayer is the last resort when it should be my first. How could I discount, not the power of my prayers, but Your power to answer. I would not fail my family, my friends, my neighbors by failing to lift them up before You!

“As for me, far be it from me that I should sin against the LORD by failing to pray for you. And I will teach you the way that is good and right.” 1Sam.12.23 Conversations Within” ts 2/6/


Wednesday, February 12, 2025

“Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith.” Henry Beecher

 I sometimes wake at night anxious about something. Not only does turning it over in my mind keep me from sleep, it keeps me from seeing just how secure I really am in God. I have found it helpful to drift off back to sleep, quoting a passage of Scripture that reminds me of His many promises to handle matters that concern me.

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 2/4/2025



Tuesday, February 11, 2025

“Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow.” Mary Anne Radmacher

 God sent the children of Israel out to battle. Each day they went out and each day they came back defeated. Thousands died. They courageously formed the same battle line day after day until they finally defeated the enemy. God sometimes asks us to do things even when it is costly to do them. Perhaps the victory He desires isn't so much that we are never knocked down, but the courage to keep getting up every time we are.

“But the people, the men of Israel, took courage, and again formed the battle line in the same place where they had formed it on the first day.” Judges 20 ESV Conversations Within” ts 2/3/2025



Monday, February 10, 2025

“Instead you ought to say, 'If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that'” James

I realize more and more that God decides the outcome of all plans. Without His blessing, nothing of value will be produced. Jesus reminds us that none of us can achieve anything without His Father in Heaven. But with Him, and His blessing, well, just fill in the blank with the pen of faith.

“Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” Conversations Within” ts 2/2/2025



Sunday, February 9, 2025

"Basically we are all looking for someone who knows who we are and will break it to us gently." Robert Brault

 Lord, I know you love me. But, I also want you to like me. The reason I question if you do, is simply because there are times when I don’t like myself. I should have a better handle on all this by now. Create in me a likable heart, one that You enjoy hanging around everyday. 

Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.” Conversations Within” ts 2/1/2025




Friday, February 7, 2025

”Do what you like. Like what you do.” Life is Good

I have concluded that it is only safe to adopt this motto when what I like truly makes life good. Good choices will bring a good life. Something is good when I enjoy what is beneficial and wholesome. There is something beautiful when you see someone doing something they love doing, and at the same time the activity is overflowing in pure goodness and joy.

“Butter and honey shall he eat, when he knows to refuse the evil, and choose the good.” Is.7.15 Conversations Within” ts 1/31/2025



Thursday, February 6, 2025

“The dude abides!”

 By telling us to abide in His love Jesus is reminding us that it is possible for us to choose not to abide in His love. I do not abide in His love anytime I hold to attitudes and actions that do not reflect His. "What would Jesus do" is really a very good question to ask before I say or do something.

“Abide in my love.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 1/30/2025

Photo: Jim Stirling




Wednesday, February 5, 2025

“Sometimes you go with the flow, sometimes you must be the flow.” Unknown

I am emotionally healthier when I go with the flow of things. But, it is my faith in God that enables me to go with the flow. I am assured that God, not fate, nor chance governs the direction the flow is taking me. 

“Have faith in God,”  Jesus Conversations Within” ts 1/29/2025




Tuesday, February 4, 2025

"Like a Bridge over troubled water." Simon & Garfunkel

Trouble is sure to come our way, but this doesn’t mean that our troubles need to trouble us too much. It helps to know that just as we can expect trouble, we can also expect our troubles to end. Be encouraged! The story ends well.

“In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 1/27/2025



Monday, February 3, 2025

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King, Jr.

I am learning a certain contentment with the inner conflict that humans are born with, and which becomes even more evident when someone is “born again.” When Jesus entered my life, His light exposed the dark places in my heart. But, instead of fear and guilt as the primary motivations to change, love and a reverent respect now move me to follow Him into the light where joy and peace await.

“But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light.” Eph.5.13 Conversations Within” ts 1/25/2025



Sunday, February 2, 2025

“Anger is the fluid that love bleeds when it gets cut.” C. S. Lewis

To say that love is not easily angered does not mean that it never is. There is a righteous anger. But even when anger is the right response, we are commanded to not let the sun set on our anger, or allow it to dominate us. We are told to be angry and not sin. We could say that anger is proper when its energy works for what is good. 

“Love is not easily angered,” 1Cor.13 Conversations Within” ts 1/26/2025




Friday, January 31, 2025

“Complete abstinence is easier than perfect moderation.” Augustine

I like butter, and I like honey. I especially like them mixed, and sandwiched on a hot biscuit. The best way to enjoy them is to pile on a heap of gratitude, and a serving of moderation as you eat them. This way you will be healthy as well as happy.

“Butter and honey shall he eat, when he knows to refuse the evil, and choose the good.” Is.7.15 Conversations Within” ts 1/23/2025



Thursday, January 30, 2025

“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honourable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

 The other day I asked my wife how old she would like to live. In her matter of fact manner, she told me that she would not want to live past usefulness or being able to get around well. I can attest that usefulness defines how she spends her time.

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many" Jesus Conversations Within” ts 1/22/2025



Wednesday, January 29, 2025

"Difficulty is inevitable. Drama is a choice." ~Anita Renfroe

It is better to wisely deal with life, than to deal with drama. It is wise to realize that dealing with other people's drama is simply a part of dealing with life. Dealing wisely with myself, and my responses, will keep drama at bay. We can train ourselves to process problems without creating drama.

“Fools vent their anger, but the wise quietly hold it back.” Prov.29.11 Conversations Within” ts 1/20/2025



Tuesday, January 28, 2025

Eternally secure!

A peaceful confidence flows when I remind myself who controls my future. Jesus has assured us that nothing, absolutely nothing, can separate us from God’s love and care. When we ascend by faith into the height of these assurances, our worries cannot follow us there.

You hold my future.” Ps.16 Conversations Within” ts 1/15/2025



Monday, January 27, 2025

”Twinkle twinkle little star how i wonder what you are…” Jane Taylor

To look at the night sky, the sheer number of stars, staggers the soul. One feels so small, so insignificant. Yet, the Spirit gently reminds me that all of it, made in the span of six days, was made at least in part for the people inhabiting this small planet. How great is our God, the maker of Heaven and earth, How great His love for each of us. 

“When I look at your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, and the son of man that you care for him?” Ps.8 Conversations Within” ts 1/19/2025

                               Photo: James Webb


Sunday, January 26, 2025

Boy, I want to get this one right!

Jesus issued a grave warning, that holding something to be true when it is really false, puts us much further from knowing the truth. I believe a good example of this, especially in our age, is the false notion that what is true for me is true for me,  and what is true for you is true for you. If something is true in the absolute sense, then it is always true. Lord, shine your light in our heart. 

“So if the light within you is darkness, how deep is that darkness!” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 1/19/2025


Friday, January 24, 2025

“The greatest of all faults is to be conscious of none.” Thomas Carlyle

Repentance is needed daily. The Spirit of Jesus encourages me to change my thinking. Of course my actions are to follow. Repentance is first an attitude that says, "Show me my faults." It is then a resultant action to change my ways. Repenting is a necessary prerequisite to abide in God’s love.

“Repent for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 1/24/2025





Thursday, January 23, 2025

“The first step in crafting the life you want is to get rid of what you don’t.” Unknown

Throw off what hinders. Rid yourself of the attitude and the action that is holding you back. Often if it isn’t helping, it is hindering. Identify what hinders and abandon it. Then run joyfully in the air of freedom.

“Let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,” Heb.12.1 Conversations Within” ts 1/11/2025



Wednesday, January 22, 2025

“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.” C.S.Lewis

How do I humble myself before God? I am pretty sure that beating myself up with shame has nothing to do with it. Nurturing a realistic appraisal of our need for grace and His willingness to give it is a good first step. The humblest thing we can do is accept His love and mercy and move on in loving service to others.

“Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.” 1Pet.5.6 Conversations Within” ts 1/10/2025




Tuesday, January 21, 2025

“It's all good!”

It is one thing to want for nothing because you already have everything, and another to simply want for nothing, because you have learned to be satisfied without everything.

“The Lord is my Shepherd, I lack nothing.” Ps.23 Conversations Within” ts 1/9/2025



Monday, January 20, 2025

The perfect answer

The word perfect, as used in Scripture, is strongly tied to the notion of maturity. To be perfect, as our Father in Heaven is, in context, refers to a mature response to one's enemies. In other words, we imitate God’s response to our enemies by loving, forgiving and blessing them, not by returning the immature response of condemning, criticizing, or seeking to harm them.

“Be perfect as your Father in Heaven is perfect.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 1/8/2025



Sunday, January 19, 2025

"Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right". Phil McGraw

 I realize the value of living decisivelyDoing so, is to make peace with making imperfect decisions. Not deciding is deciding, and will often prolong living unsettled. Make the best choice you can. But realize that at times you may decide that right now is not the best time to deal with something. If it is best to postpone, at least decide when you will decide.

“The prudent give thought to their steps. Prov.14.15 Conversations Within” ts 1/7/2025



Friday, January 17, 2025

“I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself.” D.H. Lawrence

Emotions can cloud the day of decision. Approach life from a “matter of fact” point of view. I do not imply that we should be cold and indifferent, just calculated and self-controlled. Accept what is, and decide to run with the determination and joy of a three legged dog.

“You hold my future.” Ps.16 Conversations Within” ts 1/15/2025



Thursday, January 16, 2025

"Every battle is won before it is fought." Sun Tzu “The Art of War.”

Make preparations in the morning for the battle you know is coming this evening. 

“Put on the whole armor of God.” Eph.6 Conversations Within” ts 1/14/2025







Wednesday, January 15, 2025

“This is the very perfection of a man, to find out his own imperfections.” Saint Augustine

 If you have ever told a child to do something just to show them that they cannot do it without help, then you begin to understand some of why Jesus is telling us to be perfect. By telling us to be perfect He is at once showing us our imperfections, and likewise helping us to understand our need to approach God under a different set of rules. Instead of trying to earn God's favor,we accept the favor He freely offers us in forgiveness and grace. 

“Be perfect as your Father in Heaven is perfect.” Jesus  Conversations Within” ts 1/6/2025




Tuesday, January 14, 2025

May love be the dynamic that defines my journey, and its light and joy, my constant companion

 I am grateful that light surrounds me. I know what has true and lasting value. I know that love is the greatest. Truly, Lord, You have made known to me the path of life. Unfortunately I do not always walk on it. What is there for me to do, but to immediately make my way back to the path, and love as I should. 

God is love. Those who abide in love abide in God and God in them. 1Jo.4.16 Conversations Within” ts 1/5/2025




Sunday, January 12, 2025

“Though the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.” Helen Keller

Hurricane Hellene, now California wildfires; suffering abounds in our world. When it does, there always follows a powerful witness of enduring faith. People reach out in love to others, and families endure their loss with grace. One family sang "Hallelujah" standing outside the ruins of their fire ravaged home. There are some beautiful masterpieces painted over the canvas of human suffering.

“We rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope.” Conversations Within” ts 1/12/2025



“He Gave Us Stories” Richard Pratt

I love a good story. God gave us stories in the Bible. Jesus told stories to teach. Each of us has a story to tell. In every story there is a dilemma--a dragon to be slain. In every story there is a turning point that leads to a moral, a lesson and wisdom to be gleaned. Keep telling the stories to your heart and to others. 

“Tell your children of it, and let your children tell their children, and their children to another generation.” Joel 1.3 Conversations Within” ts 1/4/2025






Friday, January 10, 2025

“My faith demands that I do whatever I can, wherever I can, whenever I can, for as long as I can.” Jimmy Carter

 It is one thing to inconsistently hit and miss doing good, and another to be faithfully good. Excel everyday at bringing goodness to others.

“Well done, good and faithful servant.” 1Tim.1 Conversations Within” ts 1/2/2025

Photo The Carter Center


Thursday, January 9, 2025

”I call all times soon.” Aslan

To hear Jesus say that He is returning soon, after two thousand plus years have passed, means that He surely measures time differently than we do. And of course He would, He was around before the sun moon and stars became a measure of time. Still, I add my voice like the prayers of children before Christmas morning, “Come, Lord Jesus!”

“Yes, I am coming soon.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.” Rev.22.20 Conversations Within” ts 1/1/2025



Wednesday, January 8, 2025

It always starts with the way I deal with my next thought.

Thoughts pop in my head all day long. Some are introduced to me by others. I am so grateful for the ability to choose how I respond to them. As a Christian, I am learning a new way of thinking, and every day is an opportunity to put it into practice. 

“Take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.” Conversations Within” ts 12/25/2024



Tuesday, January 7, 2025

Lord, heal me of sending mixed messages.

The name of Jesus was called over me at my baptism. I name His name, and as such, my life should remind others of Him. I am sure it does sometimes, just as I am sure there are times it does not. At best I am a mixed message. Someone said that “purity of heart is to will one will.” Instead of feeling the weight of these words, I would that they set me free to fly above the clouds of a divided life.

“Blessed are the pure in heart.” Jesus Conversations Within” ts 12/24/2024