Just me trying to be honest with God.

Thursday, June 30, 2011

“Gossip needn't be false to be evil - there's a lot of truth that shouldn't be passed around.” Frank A. Clark

“...speaking the truth in love...” Eph.4 NIV

It is quite obvious that one does not have to spread lies to hurt people, sometimes telling the truth is enough. But hurting people is a contradiction of life's true purpose. Every person is given to every other person to help them in the way, not hurt them. Telling the truth about someone is gossip when the result damages them in some way. We are encouraged to speak the truth but when it involves something negative, we should speak it first to the person involved. A friend always tells a friend the truth even if it hurts but such hurt is for healing just as cutting is necessary for the surgeon. If I speak about someone let it always be to their face and not to someone else. 6/22/2011 Conversations Within ts (Oak Mountain, AL)

“Gossip needn't be false to be evil - there's a lot of truth that shouldn't be passed around.” Frank A. Clark

“...speaking the truth in love...” Eph.4 NIV

It is quite obvious that one does not have to spread lies to hurt people, sometimes telling the truth is enough. But hurting people is a contradiction of life's true purpose. Every person is given to every other person to help them in the way, not hurt them. Telling the truth about someone is gossip when the result damages them in some way. We are encouraged to speak the truth but when it involves something negative, we should speak it first to the person involved. A friend always tells a friend the truth even if it hurts but such hurt is for healing just as cutting is necessary for the surgeon. If I speak about someone let it always be to their face and not to someone else. 6/22/2011 Conversations Within ts (Oak Mountain, AL)

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

“I resolve to speak ill of no man whatever, not even in a matter of truth...

and upon proper occasions speak all the good I know of everybody.” Benjamin Franklin

“...speak evil of no man .” Titus 3

If there is ever a time to hold our tongue it is when we are tempted to say something bad about someone. And, since the Christ life is not only mercy but grace, let me also speak what is good about people and especially tell it to them. Just as plants grow in the direction of the light, people grow in the direction of praise. When we express appreciation for some virtue we see in a friend, we are encouraging them to grow in that direction and hopefully away from the non-virtues they possess. This kind of thing will probably work for us as well. When we speak good to our own heart we will see grace reflected back in our actions. 6/21/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunter Hill, AL)

“I resolve to speak ill of no man whatever, not even in a matter of truth...

and upon proper occasions speak all the good I know of everybody.” Benjamin Franklin

“...speak evil of no man .” Titus 3

If there is ever a time to hold our tongue it is when we are tempted to say something bad about someone. And, since the Christ life is not only mercy but grace, let me also speak what is good about people and especially tell it to them. Just as plants grow in the direction of the light, people grow in the direction of praise. When we express appreciation for some virtue we see in a friend, we are encouraging them to grow in that direction and hopefully away from the non-virtues they possess. This kind of thing will probably work for us as well. When we speak good to our own heart we will see grace reflected back in our actions. 6/21/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunter Hill, AL)

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

”Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.” Benjamin Franklin

”Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.” Benjamin Franklin

“Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets, but he who is trustworthy in spirit keeps a thing covered.” Pro.11 ESV

If I am to be a means of grace in this world, a healing medicine rather than a meddling menace, let me keep the confidences of the people in my life. If I say anything about the secrets that people entrust to me, let me speak of them only in the secret chambers of prayer. And, I pray that I don't want to fall into that trap of sharing the confidences of others as prayer request. A lot of gossip is shared this way. How precious is that friend who will keep a confidence, whose commitment to guarding the things shared in private is equal only to their commitment to your happiness. 6/20/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunter Hill, AL)

”Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.” Benjamin Franklin

”Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.” Benjamin Franklin

“Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets, but he who is trustworthy in spirit keeps a thing covered.” Pro.11 ESV

If I am to be a means of grace in this world, a healing medicine rather than a meddling menace, let me keep the confidences of the people in my life. If I say anything about the secrets that people entrust to me, let me speak of them only in the secret chambers of prayer. And, I pray that I don't want to fall into that trap of sharing the confidences of others as prayer request. A lot of gossip is shared this way. How precious is that friend who will keep a confidence, whose commitment to guarding the things shared in private is equal only to their commitment to your happiness. 6/20/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunter Hill, AL)

Monday, June 27, 2011

“If you haven't got anything nice to say about anybody, come sit next to me.” Alice Roosevelt Longworth

“The words of a whisperer are like delicious morsels; they go down into the inner parts of the body.” Pr.18 ESV

I am hit quite often with Facebook app advertisements that try to bait me by saying that someone has answered a question about me. In order for me to read what they said I have to use their service. So far I haven't taken the bait, mainly because I am not into the Facebook app scene but I do wonder what others might be saying about me. It is sad that we care so much about what others think and say about us. It is also sad that most of us spend too much time talking about and listening to other peoples private stuff. Someone one said that when people start to tell you some juicy gossip to point to your ear and ask them if it looks like a garbage can? 6/17/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunter Hill, AL)

“If you haven't got anything nice to say about anybody, come sit next to me.” Alice Roosevelt Longworth

“The words of a whisperer are like delicious morsels; they go down into the inner parts of the body.” Pr.18 ESV

I am hit quite often with Facebook app advertisements that try to bait me by saying that someone has answered a question about me. In order for me to read what they said I have to use their service. So far I haven't taken the bait, mainly because I am not into the Facebook app scene but I do wonder what others might be saying about me. It is sad that we care so much about what others think and say about us. It is also sad that most of us spend too much time talking about and listening to other peoples private stuff. Someone one said that when people start to tell you some juicy gossip to point to your ear and ask them if it looks like a garbage can? 6/17/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunter Hill, AL)

Saturday, June 25, 2011

“If you aim at nothing, you'll hit it every time.” Author Unknown

“Apart from me you can do nothing.” Jesus

There came a point in my life when I started believing that Jesus not only occupied a place in history but that all history is as someone suggested, “His Story”. Because of this personal shift, I not only believe Him to be the center of human existence, I hold Him to be my center. All my questions are answered in Him. All His answers give purpose to my life. Christ has become my goal, my aim, the measure of everything I believe to be worthwhile; and, while I fall woefully short of following Him, I trust that He is able to perfect any faith I have placed in Him. Jesus is the goal and the only means to reach it. Trying to be like Jesus without the help of Jesus it like trying to reach the top rung on a ladder without using the ladder. Don't just try, trust! 6/15/2011 Conversations Within ts (Freeport, FL)

“If you aim at nothing, you'll hit it every time.” Author Unknown

“Apart from me you can do nothing.” Jesus

There came a point in my life when I started believing that Jesus not only occupied a place in history but that all history is as someone suggested, “His Story”. Because of this personal shift, I not only believe Him to be the center of human existence, I hold Him to be my center. All my questions are answered in Him. All His answers give purpose to my life. Christ has become my goal, my aim, the measure of everything I believe to be worthwhile; and, while I fall woefully short of following Him, I trust that He is able to perfect any faith I have placed in Him. Jesus is the goal and the only means to reach it. Trying to be like Jesus without the help of Jesus it like trying to reach the top rung on a ladder without using the ladder. Don't just try, trust! 6/15/2011 Conversations Within ts (Freeport, FL)

Friday, June 24, 2011

“The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.” Eleanor

“I have come that you might have life and have it abundantly .” Jesus

When people stop living and start existing it is usually because they have stopped doing things on purpose, or at least the right purpose. “I owe, I owe so off to work I go,” is hardly God's intended reason for work. Paying your debts or staying in a marriage because its the right thing is certainly a good thing, but it hardly captures all that God designed for work or marriage. It we have little or no fulfillment in our relationships or our responsibilities the best thing to do isn't check out of them, but to discover God's purpose in them. It seems logical that the first step to find meaningful purpose in every aspect of my life would be to do everything with the Creator of everything. Partnership is exactly what He offers. 6/16/2011 Conversations Within ts (Freeport, FL)

“The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.” Eleanor

“I have come that you might have life and have it abundantly .” Jesus

When people stop living and start existing it is usually because they have stopped doing things on purpose, or at least the right purpose. “I owe, I owe so off to work I go,” is hardly God's intended reason for work. Paying your debts or staying in a marriage because its the right thing is certainly a good thing, but it hardly captures all that God designed for work or marriage. It we have little or no fulfillment in our relationships or our responsibilities the best thing to do isn't check out of them, but to discover God's purpose in them. It seems logical that the first step to find meaningful purpose in every aspect of my life would be to do everything with the Creator of everything. Partnership is exactly what He offers. 6/16/2011 Conversations Within ts (Freeport, FL)

Thursday, June 23, 2011

“Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare.” Japanese Proverb

“Where there is no vision, the people perish...” Pro.29 KJV

When the Bible speaks of having no vision it is talking about having no word from God. What is life without breath, but what is breath if you breathe the wrong air. If I am to have a vision for my life I want it to grow out of my relationship with the Creator not some “bucket list” I might dream up. God speaks, and I surely want Him to speak to me. Perhaps if I hear no personal word from Him it might be because I am ignoring the word He has already spoken. What word we ask? Those intended for us all, of course, spoken on two mountains, initially through Moses and definitively through Christ. Perhaps God is waiting for me to come to the foot of these mountains before He meets me at the foot of my own. 6/15/2011 Conversations Within ts (Port St. Joe, FL)

“Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare.” Japanese Proverb

“Where there is no vision, the people perish...” Pro.29 KJV

When the Bible speaks of having no vision it is talking about having no word from God. What is life without breath, but what is breath if you breathe the wrong air. If I am to have a vision for my life I want it to grow out of my relationship with the Creator not some “bucket list” I might dream up. God speaks, and I surely want Him to speak to me. Perhaps if I hear no personal word from Him it might be because I am ignoring the word He has already spoken. What word we ask? Those intended for us all, of course, spoken on two mountains, initially through Moses and definitively through Christ. Perhaps God is waiting for me to come to the foot of these mountains before He meets me at the foot of my own. 6/15/2011 Conversations Within ts (Port St. Joe, FL)

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

“It's not about you.” Rick Warren (The Purpose Driven Life)

“You did not choose me but I chose you.” Jesus

One thing which seems to be unique to humans is that we are self aware, another is that we are self absorbed. This tendency is also the reason for most of our unhappiness. If Jesus is right, there is a purpose to life greater than just my life and I must join it if I am to realize all that the Creator intends. God calls people to live for His glory, not because He is stuck on Himself, but because He is the overflow of goodness and would have us share it. God is a public fountain not a private well and He invites us to join Him in living for the common good. When I do or not do, participate or not participate, let it be because I am thinking not only of myself but also the good of others. 6/14/2011 Conversations Within ts (Port St. Joe, FL)

“It's not about you.” Rick Warren (The Purpose Driven Life)

“You did not choose me but I chose you.” Jesus

One thing which seems to be unique to humans is that we are self aware, another is that we are self absorbed. This tendency is also the reason for most of our unhappiness. If Jesus is right, there is a purpose to life greater than just my life and I must join it if I am to realize all that the Creator intends. God calls people to live for His glory, not because He is stuck on Himself, but because He is the overflow of goodness and would have us share it. God is a public fountain not a private well and He invites us to join Him in living for the common good. When I do or not do, participate or not participate, let it be because I am thinking not only of myself but also the good of others. 6/14/2011 Conversations Within ts (Port St. Joe, FL)

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

“When a man does not know what harbor he is making for, no wind is the right wind.” Seneca

“Stand firm...” Eph.6

I suppose you could just as easily reply to Seneca that when a man does not know what harbor he is making for, “any” wind is the right wind. In other words, just “go with the flow.” I can see certain advantages to this kind of thinking, at least in some things. “Blessed are the flexible, for they shall no be bent out-of-shape.“ But while this may be good when choosing a restaurant with a group of friends, it can spell disaster when choosing a life purpose. Sometimes the right purpose in life will lead us to be flexible, other times it will direct us to hold course and sail against the wind. If my life purpose is to love God and love my neighbor, eating Mexican when all my friends want Mexican and I would prefer Asian might be the best way to express it. Being flexible would best express that purpose. But I am sure there are times when standing firm and staying the course is the best way to love my neighbor, especially if a storm is coming and I know a sure way to the only safe port. 6/13/2011 Conversations Within ts (On-the-road, FL)

“When a man does not know what harbor he is making for, no wind is the right wind.” Seneca

“Stand firm...” Eph.6

I suppose you could just as easily reply to Seneca that when a man does not know what harbor he is making for, “any” wind is the right wind. In other words, just “go with the flow.” I can see certain advantages to this kind of thinking, at least in some things. “Blessed are the flexible, for they shall no be bent out-of-shape.“ But while this may be good when choosing a restaurant with a group of friends, it can spell disaster when choosing a life purpose. Sometimes the right purpose in life will lead us to be flexible, other times it will direct us to hold course and sail against the wind. If my life purpose is to love God and love my neighbor, eating Mexican when all my friends want Mexican and I would prefer Asian might be the best way to express it. Being flexible would best express that purpose. But I am sure there are times when standing firm and staying the course is the best way to love my neighbor, especially if a storm is coming and I know a sure way to the only safe port. 6/13/2011 Conversations Within ts (On-the-road, FL)

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Computers are not the only thing that need rebooting from time to time.

“Fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith.” Heb.12

Most people in this age of computers know that sometimes you have to turn your computer off and back on to clear out all the clutter that is slowing down its performance. This is called “rebooting.” Rebooting forces the computer to remember it's base functions. People not only need to know how to reboot their computer, they also need to know how to reboot themselves. The stuff of life slows down our fruitfulness so it becomes necessary to dump all the clutter, refocus and remember our purpose. Not only knowing the purpose of life but being able to tap into it, to recenter ourselves around it, is itself, a necessary skill. Where is my reboot button? Do I know how to center myself? It may be something as simple as closing your eyes for a moment and speaking core values to your heart until the focus returns. o6/12/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Computers are not the only thing that need rebooting from time to time.

“Fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith.” Heb.12

Most people in this age of computers know that sometimes you have to turn your computer off and back on to clear out all the clutter that is slowing down its performance. This is called “rebooting.” Rebooting forces the computer to remember it's base functions. People not only need to know how to reboot their computer, they also need to know how to reboot themselves. The stuff of life slows down our fruitfulness so it becomes necessary to dump all the clutter, refocus and remember our purpose. Not only knowing the purpose of life but being able to tap into it, to recenter ourselves around it, is itself, a necessary skill. Where is my reboot button? Do I know how to center myself? It may be something as simple as closing your eyes for a moment and speaking core values to your heart until the focus returns. o6/12/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Saturday, June 18, 2011

“Let your religion be less of a theory and more of a love affair.” G.K. Chesterton

Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.” Jas 1:27

If there is a religion to be had, it is that I religiously help others in need. I am sure God wants nothing of any superstitions I have but He is always telling us to be our brother's keeper. If there is any way to bring God into our day, I am sure it has everything to do with serving those around us. After all these centuries under the influence of Christ, just about everyone sees the nobility of helping widows and orphans. Interestingly, the hardest people to serve are generally those closest to us. Surely I should go out of my way to serve the orphan and widow but by all means let me also find the nobility in serving my own family, my wife and children. 6/11/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“Let your religion be less of a theory and more of a love affair.” G.K. Chesterton

Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.” Jas 1:27

If there is a religion to be had, it is that I religiously help others in need. I am sure God wants nothing of any superstitions I have but He is always telling us to be our brother's keeper. If there is any way to bring God into our day, I am sure it has everything to do with serving those around us. After all these centuries under the influence of Christ, just about everyone sees the nobility of helping widows and orphans. Interestingly, the hardest people to serve are generally those closest to us. Surely I should go out of my way to serve the orphan and widow but by all means let me also find the nobility in serving my own family, my wife and children. 6/11/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Friday, June 17, 2011

“The churches must learn humility as well as teach it.” George Bernard Shaw

“If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.” James 1.26

I can usually tell when I am being religious and that is when any semblance of a gentile and quiet spirit is drowned out by the propagation of personal platitudes. I diminish my relationship with the Father to a doctrinal position ,not that doctrine is bad, just something less . It is so much better when I cease pontificating my religion and simply share the joys of my relationship with God. 6/10/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“The churches must learn humility as well as teach it.” George Bernard Shaw

“If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.” James 1.26

I can usually tell when I am being religious and that is when any semblance of a gentile and quiet spirit is drowned out by the propagation of personal platitudes. I diminish my relationship with the Father to a doctrinal position ,not that doctrine is bad, just something less . It is so much better when I cease pontificating my religion and simply share the joys of my relationship with God. 6/10/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Thursday, June 16, 2011

"People don't come to church for preachments, of course, but to daydream about God.” Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

"...and he was called God's friend.” James 2

Most of the people I meet are not searching for religion if they are searching at all. I think people want meaningful friendship or at least the benefits of it. God offers us friendship but in order to have a friend or at least a real friend one must not only be open to it but also be open. This is why people settle for some self made religion. It is easier to keep God at a safe distance tucked away behind the cloak of religious practice rather than let Him too close. To know friendship with God, like any friendship, we must open up to Him and that means being vulnerable. Most of us find that hard to do. It is not easy to trust your life to another, especially when He has the reputation of hurting people in order to heal them. But what would you expect from a friend who also happens to be a surgeon and who knows you need surgery. 6/9/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

"People don't come to church for preachments, of course, but to daydream about God.” Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

"...and he was called God's friend.” James 2

Most of the people I meet are not searching for religion if they are searching at all. I think people want meaningful friendship or at least the benefits of it. God offers us friendship but in order to have a friend or at least a real friend one must not only be open to it but also be open. This is why people settle for some self made religion. It is easier to keep God at a safe distance tucked away behind the cloak of religious practice rather than let Him too close. To know friendship with God, like any friendship, we must open up to Him and that means being vulnerable. Most of us find that hard to do. It is not easy to trust your life to another, especially when He has the reputation of hurting people in order to heal them. But what would you expect from a friend who also happens to be a surgeon and who knows you need surgery. 6/9/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

“Most sermons sound to me like commercials - but I can't make out whether God is the Sponsor or the Product.” Mignon McLaughlin

“...your faith is proclaimed in all the world.” Rom.1

We would expect any self made religion that reduces a real relationship with God into mere ritual to lack any real depth. This is why religious people spouting their religion often sound like a salesman peddling their wares. And, lest I be too hard on others let me examine all the shallow expressions of my own witness. If I sound like a commercial it is probably I'm being one. My efforts to put in a good word about “Jesus” can be shared more for my benefit than truly seeking the benefit of another.
I have no interest in buying an I-Pad because of some salesman trying to sale me one. My interest comes from all my friends who have one and love it. The value they assign to it is witnessed by the value it brings to their life. The best witness to any faith is likewise the value it brings to us, to the quality of our relationships our responsibilities and even our recreations. It is sad that many people have no interest in God because of all the cheap ways He is advertised to the world. 6/8/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“Most sermons sound to me like commercials - but I can't make out whether God is the Sponsor or the Product.” Mignon McLaughlin

“...your faith is proclaimed in all the world.” Rom.1

We would expect any self made religion that reduces a real relationship with God into mere ritual to lack any real depth. This is why religious people spouting their religion often sound like a salesman peddling their wares. And, lest I be too hard on others let me examine all the shallow expressions of my own witness. If I sound like a commercial it is probably I'm being one. My efforts to put in a good word about “Jesus” can be shared more for my benefit than truly seeking the benefit of another.
I have no interest in buying an I-Pad because of some salesman trying to sale me one. My interest comes from all my friends who have one and love it. The value they assign to it is witnessed by the value it brings to their life. The best witness to any faith is likewise the value it brings to us, to the quality of our relationships our responsibilities and even our recreations. It is sad that many people have no interest in God because of all the cheap ways He is advertised to the world. 6/8/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Monday, June 13, 2011

“All religions are the same: religion is basically guilt, with different holidays.” Cathy Ladman

“These have indeed an appearance of wisdom in promoting self-made religion and asceticism and severity to the body, but they are of no value in stopping the indulgence of the flesh.” Col 2:23

I have a number of atheistic friends who regard religion as one means to control the masses and even believe that there were times in history when it was necessary for the survival of the human species. There is no doubt that religion has been used in such a manner. I have been on both ends, trying to control others and experienced others trying to control me--usually by flinging guilt trips. I have long since given up both. In my own experience the practice of man made religion, especially the guilt stuff, does nothing to promote self control. Here is one big difference between man made religion and a relationship with God. God doesn't fling guilt trips at all. He enlightens us to what is true which means he often convicts people of things which are false. He encourages us as a Father. And, like a coach He enables people to escape the prison of our selfishness. God does not want to control us. The fruit of His presence is “self control,” voluntary love and the joy of one's life overflowing in goodness. 6/7/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“All religions are the same: religion is basically guilt, with different holidays.” Cathy Ladman

“These have indeed an appearance of wisdom in promoting self-made religion and asceticism and severity to the body, but they are of no value in stopping the indulgence of the flesh.” Col 2:23

I have a number of atheistic friends who regard religion as one means to control the masses and even believe that there were times in history when it was necessary for the survival of the human species. There is no doubt that religion has been used in such a manner. I have been on both ends, trying to control others and experienced others trying to control me--usually by flinging guilt trips. I have long since given up both. In my own experience the practice of man made religion, especially the guilt stuff, does nothing to promote self control. Here is one big difference between man made religion and a relationship with God. God doesn't fling guilt trips at all. He enlightens us to what is true which means he often convicts people of things which are false. He encourages us as a Father. And, like a coach He enables people to escape the prison of our selfishness. God does not want to control us. The fruit of His presence is “self control,” voluntary love and the joy of one's life overflowing in goodness. 6/7/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“Man is a Religious Animal. He is the only Religious Animal. He is the only animal that has the True Religion - several of them.” Mark Twain

“Man is a Religious Animal. He is the only Religious Animal. He is the only animal that has the True Religion - several of them.” Mark Twain

“So Paul, standing in the midst of the Areopagus, said: "Men of Athens, I perceive that in every way you are very religious.” Acts 17

Religious life permeates our planet. I have always believed religion to be a poor substitute for a relationship with God. Don't get me wrong, one can religiously practice habits of a healthy relationship such as spending quality time with the one you love. But, we can also substitute any relationship, especially one with God with religious rote or ritual. I have spent time reading sacred literature instead of listening to God or gone to some meeting without really meeting with Him. Religion can kill you, in more ways than one. People have killed in the name of religion but our own religion can be just as dangerous. Jesus has made it abundantly clear that God doesn't want fanatical religious followers. He desires sons and daughters. Forget religion. 6/6/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“Man is a Religious Animal. He is the only Religious Animal. He is the only animal that has the True Religion - several of them.” Mark Twain

“Man is a Religious Animal. He is the only Religious Animal. He is the only animal that has the True Religion - several of them.” Mark Twain

“So Paul, standing in the midst of the Areopagus, said: "Men of Athens, I perceive that in every way you are very religious.” Acts 17

Religious life permeates our planet. I have always believed religion to be a poor substitute for a relationship with God. Don't get me wrong, one can religiously practice habits of a healthy relationship such as spending quality time with the one you love. But, we can also substitute any relationship, especially one with God with religious rote or ritual. I have spent time reading sacred literature instead of listening to God or gone to some meeting without really meeting with Him. Religion can kill you, in more ways than one. People have killed in the name of religion but our own religion can be just as dangerous. Jesus has made it abundantly clear that God doesn't want fanatical religious followers. He desires sons and daughters. Forget religion. 6/6/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Friday, June 10, 2011

“It is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us...” K.T.Jo

“I will meditate on your precepts.” Ps.119 ESV

There is no doubt that rote activity without conscious purpose can rob life of meaning. I feel certain that God wants so much more for us than a mechanical existence. Meditation is one way God speaks meaning into our lives.
There was a time in my life when I wanted God to speak in an audible voice but through the years I have come to appreciate the many advantages to His communication in our thoughts especially reflections on the divinely inspired writings of others. Of course there are many voices that can be heard in our conversations within. We must let the Spirit teach us how to filter out all the other voices within so we can hear that one voice that gives meaning. 6/4/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“It is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us...” K.T.Jo

“I will meditate on your precepts.” Ps.119 ESV

There is no doubt that rote activity without conscious purpose can rob life of meaning. I feel certain that God wants so much more for us than a mechanical existence. Meditation is one way God speaks meaning into our lives.
There was a time in my life when I wanted God to speak in an audible voice but through the years I have come to appreciate the many advantages to His communication in our thoughts especially reflections on the divinely inspired writings of others. Of course there are many voices that can be heard in our conversations within. We must let the Spirit teach us how to filter out all the other voices within so we can hear that one voice that gives meaning. 6/4/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Thursday, June 9, 2011

“Solitude shows us what should be; society shows us what we are.” Robert Cecil

“And the child grew and became strong in spirit, and he was in the wilderness until the day of his public appearance to Israel.” Lk.1 ESV

I am pretty certain that Christ would not want His followers to devote their life solely to solitude as some no doubt do. He has made it quite clear that we are to be with people so that we may love and serve them. His own life and ministry and that of His disciples were a balanced rhythm of solitude and service. It seems expedient that if I am to effectively love others then I must effectively nurture my own soul in solitude. But being with people is the true test of my own transformation. The authenticity of my private prayers will no doubt be proved in public service. 6/3/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“Solitude shows us what should be; society shows us what we are.” Robert Cecil

“And the child grew and became strong in spirit, and he was in the wilderness until the day of his public appearance to Israel.” Lk.1 ESV

I am pretty certain that Christ would not want His followers to devote their life solely to solitude as some no doubt do. He has made it quite clear that we are to be with people so that we may love and serve them. His own life and ministry and that of His disciples were a balanced rhythm of solitude and service. It seems expedient that if I am to effectively love others then I must effectively nurture my own soul in solitude. But being with people is the true test of my own transformation. The authenticity of my private prayers will no doubt be proved in public service. 6/3/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

“Only in quiet waters do things mirror themselves undistorted. Only in a quiet mind is adequate perception of the world.” Hans Margolius

“But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me.” Ps. 131

When I come to the quiet, I often bring a lot of noise with me. I come to the quiet with hope that the quiet may come to me. This means that sometimes when we seek solitude it is not so much to think but to cease thinking—to quiet the multitude within. Learning how to quiet the mind is one way we open the gift of contentment. The quiet mind, like the silent baby, wants for nothing. The quiet mind has learned the secret of resting in the providence of God and knows that everything is as it should be when we are trusting in Him. If it isn't as it should be, trusting Him will certainly make it so. 6/2/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“Only in quiet waters do things mirror themselves undistorted. Only in a quiet mind is adequate perception of the world.” Hans Margolius

“But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me.” Ps. 131

When I come to the quiet, I often bring a lot of noise with me. I come to the quiet with hope that the quiet may come to me. This means that sometimes when we seek solitude it is not so much to think but to cease thinking—to quiet the multitude within. Learning how to quiet the mind is one way we open the gift of contentment. The quiet mind, like the silent baby, wants for nothing. The quiet mind has learned the secret of resting in the providence of God and knows that everything is as it should be when we are trusting in Him. If it isn't as it should be, trusting Him will certainly make it so. 6/2/2011 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville, FL)

“Never be afraid to sit awhile and think.” Lorraine Hansberry

“And Isaac went out to meditate in the field toward evening.” Gen.24

A wise father taught his son to sit alone and quiet in a room everyday for at least thirty minutes and spend the time thinking. The son, years later, attributed every notable accomplishment in his life to those moments of quiet thought and not only continued the practice but commended it to others.
For the most part, it is easier to settle for the quaint quotes of others instead of nurturing a contemplative life of our own. We have forgotten how to sit still with our thoughts and have replaced meditation with media. One who is constantly on the go will never develop the roots of a mature inner life. 6/1/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

“Never be afraid to sit awhile and think.” Lorraine Hansberry

“And Isaac went out to meditate in the field toward evening.” Gen.24

A wise father taught his son to sit alone and quiet in a room everyday for at least thirty minutes and spend the time thinking. The son, years later, attributed every notable accomplishment in his life to those moments of quiet thought and not only continued the practice but commended it to others.
For the most part, it is easier to settle for the quaint quotes of others instead of nurturing a contemplative life of our own. We have forgotten how to sit still with our thoughts and have replaced meditation with media. One who is constantly on the go will never develop the roots of a mature inner life. 6/1/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

“By all means use sometimes to be alone.” George Herbert

“By all means use sometimes to be alone.” George Herbert

“And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day.” Gen.32

Alone time is time to think, meditate and pray, to wrestle the meaning out of life. It was only when Jacob was alone that Christ came to wrestle with him. What a great way to describe a relationship with God. It is a wrestling match, Father and son tussling on the ground. God desires a real encounter with us, not some mindless religious chatter. He prefers a tug-of-war, to feel someone pulling on the other end of the rope, not some puppet on a string. No doubt He will wrestle us to the ground, to break our stubborn will but never our spirit. He resists us to bring into clear focus just how bad we really want what we think we want from Him. In the end, we will find like most dads who wrestle with their children, that He will eventually let us pin Him down. He will submit to us when He answers our prayers as much as we to Him when we answer His challenge to grow up. Every dad knows for the boy to be a man he must learn how to humbly lose but also how to confidently prevail. When you take time to get alone, be sure to bring your wrestling shorts. 5/31/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

“By all means use sometimes to be alone.” George Herbert

“By all means use sometimes to be alone.” George Herbert

“And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day.” Gen.32

Alone time is time to think, meditate and pray, to wrestle the meaning out of life. It was only when Jacob was alone that Christ came to wrestle with him. What a great way to describe a relationship with God. It is a wrestling match, Father and son tussling on the ground. God desires a real encounter with us, not some mindless religious chatter. He prefers a tug-of-war, to feel someone pulling on the other end of the rope, not some puppet on a string. No doubt He will wrestle us to the ground, to break our stubborn will but never our spirit. He resists us to bring into clear focus just how bad we really want what we think we want from Him. In the end, we will find like most dads who wrestle with their children, that He will eventually let us pin Him down. He will submit to us when He answers our prayers as much as we to Him when we answer His challenge to grow up. Every dad knows for the boy to be a man he must learn how to humbly lose but also how to confidently prevail. When you take time to get alone, be sure to bring your wrestling shorts. 5/31/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

Monday, June 6, 2011

“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately... and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.” Henry David Thoreau

“He went up on the mountain by himself to pray. When evening came, he was there alone.” Mt.14

It is enough that Jesus sought solitude that we should learn to value it. I speak as a Christian of course. His life was a rhythm of solitude and service. I am not sure Christ went to solitary places for the same reasons we do. I need solitude to replenish my energy after a day of people but Jesus told us that serving others was food to His soul. I suppose that being divine He is a spring, always overflowing, never needing to be replenished. In such a complete person going to the mountains was probably the overflow of joy, the joy of being alone with Himself as much as being with others. But Jesus was human as well as divine, if we can wrap our head around such. I am sure that His human nature needed the rest and refreshment that can only come in solitude. It does not come “from” solitude mind you, but “in” solitude; being alone has no power in itself. The true value of solitude is that it helps to silence every other voice but the one that we need to hear the most. 5/30/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately... and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.” Henry David Thoreau

“He went up on the mountain by himself to pray. When evening came, he was there alone.” Mt.14

It is enough that Jesus sought solitude that we should learn to value it. I speak as a Christian of course. His life was a rhythm of solitude and service. I am not sure Christ went to solitary places for the same reasons we do. I need solitude to replenish my energy after a day of people but Jesus told us that serving others was food to His soul. I suppose that being divine He is a spring, always overflowing, never needing to be replenished. In such a complete person going to the mountains was probably the overflow of joy, the joy of being alone with Himself as much as being with others. But Jesus was human as well as divine, if we can wrap our head around such. I am sure that His human nature needed the rest and refreshment that can only come in solitude. It does not come “from” solitude mind you, but “in” solitude; being alone has no power in itself. The true value of solitude is that it helps to silence every other voice but the one that we need to hear the most. 5/30/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

Friday, June 3, 2011

One of the most delightful things about a garden is the anticipation it provides. ~W.E. Johns

"The Kingdom of Heaven is like a farmer who planted good seed...” Jesus

There is no measure to the fruit that can come from seeds we sow in another's life, at least not in this life. Only before the throne of God will we fully know the influences of our love. Someone has said “Anyone can count the seeds in an apple, but only God can count the number of apples in a seed.” One kind act today even if it is only witnessed by a stranger may sow seeds in their garden that will impact the life of their children's children. Lord let me keep the angels busy counting the apples. 5/28/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

One of the most delightful things about a garden is the anticipation it provides. ~W.E. Johns

"The Kingdom of Heaven is like a farmer who planted good seed...” Jesus

There is no measure to the fruit that can come from seeds we sow in another's life, at least not in this life. Only before the throne of God will we fully know the influences of our love. Someone has said “Anyone can count the seeds in an apple, but only God can count the number of apples in a seed.” One kind act today even if it is only witnessed by a stranger may sow seeds in their garden that will impact the life of their children's children. Lord let me keep the angels busy counting the apples. 5/28/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

“Gardens are a form of autobiography.” Sydney Eddison

“But what we are is known to God, and I hope it is known also to your conscience...” 1Co.5

All of life is surely like a garden. And, every gardener knows it is prudent to tend your garden every day. How is the garden of our relationships? Are there weeds of neglect growing that need our attention. Do we regularly water the garden of our family and friends with our prayers. Do we give thanks for the fruit we enjoy from those we love and who love us. Is my garden well kept, cultivated and flourishing or am I just too busy attending to lesser stuff that I have let my relationships suffer? There is no better testimony of the kind of life we are living than the condition of the garden of our relationships. 5/27/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

“Gardens are a form of autobiography.” Sydney Eddison

“But what we are is known to God, and I hope it is known also to your conscience...” 1Co.5

All of life is surely like a garden. And, every gardener knows it is prudent to tend your garden every day. How is the garden of our relationships? Are there weeds of neglect growing that need our attention. Do we regularly water the garden of our family and friends with our prayers. Do we give thanks for the fruit we enjoy from those we love and who love us. Is my garden well kept, cultivated and flourishing or am I just too busy attending to lesser stuff that I have let my relationships suffer? There is no better testimony of the kind of life we are living than the condition of the garden of our relationships. 5/27/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

Thursday, June 2, 2011

If you've never experienced the joy of accomplishing more than you can imagine, plant a garden. ~Robert Brault,

"What is the kingdom of God like? It is like a grain of mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his garden, and it grew and became a tree, and the birds of the air made nests in its branches." Jesus

I have always been fascinated that a mighty oak grows from such a small acorn. But Emerson observed something more amazing, that the trees of a thousand forest are in one acorn. The creative potential of our lives is incredible. But that potential is a two edged sword, offering the possibility of great good or great evil. Selfishness corrupts man's creative power and turns something beautiful into something dreadful. We have learned to soar and fly but then strafe villages with bullets, we invent how to capture images but then use this technology to make porn, we harness the power of the atom but make bombs. Surgery becomes abortion and medicine chemical warfare. Each of us is a living seed. We may sow our lives in the soil of selfish pursuit and reap destruction or sow it in the soil of service and reap everlasting joy. Like the seed our greatest potential is powerfully released when we stop living only for ourselves and begin living for benefit of others. 5/26/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

If you've never experienced the joy of accomplishing more than you can imagine, plant a garden. ~Robert Brault,

"What is the kingdom of God like? It is like a grain of mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his garden, and it grew and became a tree, and the birds of the air made nests in its branches." Jesus

I have always been fascinated that a mighty oak grows from such a small acorn. But Emerson observed something more amazing, that the trees of a thousand forest are in one acorn. The creative potential of our lives is incredible. But that potential is a two edged sword, offering the possibility of great good or great evil. Selfishness corrupts man's creative power and turns something beautiful into something dreadful. We have learned to soar and fly but then strafe villages with bullets, we invent how to capture images but then use this technology to make porn, we harness the power of the atom but make bombs. Surgery becomes abortion and medicine chemical warfare. Each of us is a living seed. We may sow our lives in the soil of selfish pursuit and reap destruction or sow it in the soil of service and reap everlasting joy. Like the seed our greatest potential is powerfully released when we stop living only for ourselves and begin living for benefit of others. 5/26/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

“I think that if ever a mortal heard the voice of God it would be in a garden at the cool of the day.” F. Frankfort Moore

“My Father is the Gardener.” Jesus

The faithful story tells us that man was created in a garden, cast out of a garden then redeemed by Christ who prayed in a garden, was crucified in a garden and three days later rose in the same garden. My dad has requested that we sing, “I come to the Garden,” at his funeral. This song commemorates Mary Magdalene's encounter with Christ after the resurrection. I am sure this request reflects my dad's hope of also meeting the resurrected Christ.
It is no surprise that Jesus tells us that God the Father is a Gardener. He works His garden everyday. The whole of humanity is His garden. He plants, cultivates, weeds, waters, prunes and seeks fruit from it. Garden's are all about fruit. What then is the purpose of life but to bear fruit for the pleasure of the Gardener and in response to His kind work in our life. 5/25/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)

“I think that if ever a mortal heard the voice of God it would be in a garden at the cool of the day.” F. Frankfort Moore

“My Father is the Gardener.” Jesus

The faithful story tells us that man was created in a garden, cast out of a garden then redeemed by Christ who prayed in a garden, was crucified in a garden and three days later rose in the same garden. My dad has requested that we sing, “I come to the Garden,” at his funeral. This song commemorates Mary Magdalene's encounter with Christ after the resurrection. I am sure this request reflects my dad's hope of also meeting the resurrected Christ.
It is no surprise that Jesus tells us that God the Father is a Gardener. He works His garden everyday. The whole of humanity is His garden. He plants, cultivates, weeds, waters, prunes and seeks fruit from it. Garden's are all about fruit. What then is the purpose of life but to bear fruit for the pleasure of the Gardener and in response to His kind work in our life. 5/25/2011 Conversations Within ts (Gunterhill, AL)