Just me trying to be honest with God.

Saturday, December 31, 2011

“Do not plant your dreams in the field of indecision, where nothing ever grows but the weeds of "what-if." ~Dodinsky

“Choose you this day whom you will serve!” Joshua 24

I am bothered when I make a decision to do something, something I know is good and right and then fail to follow through with it. How many times must I decide to stop eating junk food, or rein in worthless words. Why can't I just decide right now that I will never say another unkind word to anyone or another critical word about someone. The truth is, that we can decide these things, but we must decide them every day all through the day, every time the temptation to do otherwise presents itself. Some things must be decided again and again. What good is a good decision today if I reverse it tomorrow. 12/24/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“Do not plant your dreams in the field of indecision, where nothing ever grows but the weeds of "what-if." ~Dodinsky

“Choose you this day whom you will serve!” Joshua 24

I am bothered when I make a decision to do something, something I know is good and right and then fail to follow through with it. How many times must I decide to stop eating junk food, or rein in worthless words. Why can't I just decide right now that I will never say another unkind word to anyone or another critical word about someone. The truth is, that we can decide these things, but we must decide them every day all through the day, every time the temptation to do otherwise presents itself. Some things must be decided again and again. What good is a good decision today if I reverse it tomorrow. 12/24/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Friday, December 30, 2011

“The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.” Flora Whittemore

“Knock and the door will be opened to you.” Jesus

There are physical and spiritual doors in life. But I suppose the tangible doors we open are telling enough. I open the door of our refrigerator every day. What I keep inside it is certainly reflected in my mirror and on my scales. I also open the door to our camper and car everyday. Our choice to live on the road reveals a great deal about the kind of life we have chosen. We spend a lot of time outdoors which only shows my love of wood, wind and water. We also frequent the doors of family and friends. Sometimes we go see people behind the locked doors of a prison. There are other doors I think Jesus wants to open for me-the doors of the sick, the lonely, the oppressed, the orphan and widow. Doors are very telling of the life we lead. 12/23/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.” Flora Whittemore

“Knock and the door will be opened to you.” Jesus

There are physical and spiritual doors in life. But I suppose the tangible doors we open are telling enough. I open the door of our refrigerator every day. What I keep inside it is certainly reflected in my mirror and on my scales. I also open the door to our camper and car everyday. Our choice to live on the road reveals a great deal about the kind of life we have chosen. We spend a lot of time outdoors which only shows my love of wood, wind and water. We also frequent the doors of family and friends. Sometimes we go see people behind the locked doors of a prison. There are other doors I think Jesus wants to open for me-the doors of the sick, the lonely, the oppressed, the orphan and widow. Doors are very telling of the life we lead. 12/23/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Thursday, December 29, 2011

“Life is the sum of all your choices.” Albert Camus

“The Spirit wars against the flesh and the flesh against the Spirit.” Galatians 5

To say that life is the sum of our choices is just another way of saying that life is the sum of our desires, at least our strongest ones. Don't we always choose our greatest desire when we are able to do so? The key then to right choices would be to feed the right desires. We must stoke the stove of all we know to be good and right and true if its fire is to burn the brightest in our conflicted heart. Christians believe that this is where grace comes into play. God helps us by working in us proper desires that compete against those natural desires which have run amuck. 2/22/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“Life is the sum of all your choices.” Albert Camus

“The Spirit wars against the flesh and the flesh against the Spirit.” Galatians 5

To say that life is the sum of our choices is just another way of saying that life is the sum of our desires, at least our strongest ones. Don't we always choose our greatest desire when we are able to do so? The key then to right choices would be to feed the right desires. We must stoke the stove of all we know to be good and right and true if its fire is to burn the brightest in our conflicted heart. Christians believe that this is where grace comes into play. God helps us by working in us proper desires that compete against those natural desires which have run amuck. 2/22/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

“New Year's Day is every man's birthday.” Charles Lamb

“Teach me to number my days that I may apply my heart to wisdom.” Psalm 90

What is time to someone who is promised eternal life? Yet Jesus tells us to value time and to make the most of it; not because time itself is limited but the time left to us in this place certainly is. He put it this way. “Work while it is day, night is coming when no one will be able to work.” There are things entrusted to each of us during our sojourn here--chores that we must finish before the sun sets. We all share some of the same chores. Everybody is put here to enrich the life of others. But I think all of us have tasks uniquely assigned to us. One of the most important aspects of life is knowing what God wants me to do. One clue must surely be the resources entrusted to us. Yet, it is often in our weakness that we discover our greatest contribution to others. People like Helen Keller have showed us that God's power can be demonstrated as much, if not more, in what we do not have than what we have. 2/21/11 Conversations Within ts (On the road, AL)

“New Year's Day is every man's birthday.” Charles Lamb

“Teach me to number my days that I may apply my heart to wisdom.” Psalm 90

What is time to someone who is promised eternal life? Yet Jesus tells us to value time and to make the most of it; not because time itself is limited but the time left to us in this place certainly is. He put it this way. “Work while it is day, night is coming when no one will be able to work.” There are things entrusted to each of us during our sojourn here--chores that we must finish before the sun sets. We all share some of the same chores. Everybody is put here to enrich the life of others. But I think all of us have tasks uniquely assigned to us. One of the most important aspects of life is knowing what God wants me to do. One clue must surely be the resources entrusted to us. Yet, it is often in our weakness that we discover our greatest contribution to others. People like Helen Keller have showed us that God's power can be demonstrated as much, if not more, in what we do not have than what we have. 2/21/11 Conversations Within ts (On the road, AL)

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

“I think in terms of the day's resolutions, not the year's.” Henry Moore

“I think in terms of the day's resolutions, not the year's.” Henry Moore

“Keep in step with the Spirit.” Galatians 5

People who have gained freedom from various addictions have been given a precious gift. They understand that freedom comes to us a choice at a time. I have heard them refer to it as “my next right choice.” I may resolve to lose weight, quit smoking, start exercising, or begin any number of beneficial activities this next year but the truth is that any success I have, God willing, will come from one right decision following another. We can only live one choice at a time. God is that voice inside us, shining light on the right path, offering every encouragement to take it but decidedly leaving the choice to us. The choice has to be ours if we are to know true freedom. 2/20/11 Conversations Within ts (Camp Farrington, AL)

“I think in terms of the day's resolutions, not the year's.” Henry Moore

“I think in terms of the day's resolutions, not the year's.” Henry Moore

“Keep in step with the Spirit.” Galatians 5

People who have gained freedom from various addictions have been given a precious gift. They understand that freedom comes to us a choice at a time. I have heard them refer to it as “my next right choice.” I may resolve to lose weight, quit smoking, start exercising, or begin any number of beneficial activities this next year but the truth is that any success I have, God willing, will come from one right decision following another. We can only live one choice at a time. God is that voice inside us, shining light on the right path, offering every encouragement to take it but decidedly leaving the choice to us. The choice has to be ours if we are to know true freedom. 2/20/11 Conversations Within ts (Camp Farrington, AL)

Monday, December 26, 2011

“People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year,....

but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas.” Author Unknown

Be where you are! Ecc. 9

I have never been much for special days. Every day is a birthday, a Sunday, a New Years Day. At least I want to live this way. Imagine living in such a manner that we treat each moment as if it were the only moment. It is not how we treat people on their birthday but how we treat them every day of the year that really matters. There should be no Sunday Christians. Everyday should be a Christmas, an Easter, a celebration of all that God intends life to be. The quality of our interactions each day should be as though we lived a thousand years in it. Rise up, redeem the time, savor every breath, be this moment, and every moment. 2/20/11 Conversations Within ts (Camp Farrington, AL)

“People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year,....

but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas.” Author Unknown

Be where you are! Ecc. 9

I have never been much for special days. Every day is a birthday, a Sunday, a New Years Day. At least I want to live this way. Imagine living in such a manner that we treat each moment as if it were the only moment. It is not how we treat people on their birthday but how we treat them every day of the year that really matters. There should be no Sunday Christians. Everyday should be a Christmas, an Easter, a celebration of all that God intends life to be. The quality of our interactions each day should be as though we lived a thousand years in it. Rise up, redeem the time, savor every breath, be this moment, and every moment. 2/20/11 Conversations Within ts (Camp Farrington, AL)

Saturday, December 24, 2011

“I heard the bells on Christmas Day Their old, familiar carols play, And wild and sweet The words repeat...

...Of peace on earth, good-will to men!” Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

“Peace on earth goodwill toward men.” Luke 2

There is surely a wildness to the sweet grace of God. He delights in every expression of mercy. I cannot help but wonder if the angels who made this first announcement were amazed that God would want peace with our rebellious rabble. One wonders what God the Father said to the Son on Christmas Eve. I can imagine Him saying something like, “I appreciate you doing this Son. They are going to mock you Jesus, beat and kill you, but I will use it to save them.” Wild and sweet indeed! 2/16/11 Conversations Within ts (Chelsea , AL

“I heard the bells on Christmas Day Their old, familiar carols play, And wild and sweet The words repeat...

...Of peace on earth, good-will to men!” Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

“Peace on earth goodwill toward men.” Luke 2

There is surely a wildness to the sweet grace of God. He delights in every expression of mercy. I cannot help but wonder if the angels who made this first announcement were amazed that God would want peace with our rebellious rabble. One wonders what God the Father said to the Son on Christmas Eve. I can imagine Him saying something like, “I appreciate you doing this Son. They are going to mock you Jesus, beat and kill you, but I will use it to save them.” Wild and sweet indeed! 2/16/11 Conversations Within ts (Chelsea , AL

Friday, December 23, 2011

“Christmas! The very word brings joy to our hearts.”

“She gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.” Luke 2

If you ask ten Western people about some of their favorite memories, it would be a good bet that a Christmas memory would be one of them. My dear mother and dad helped make my every Christmas a magical memory. Glittering lights on our aluminum tree, eggnog, candy, presents, leaving cookies for Santa and in my home the annual reading of the Christmas story and the poem, Annie's and Wilie's prayer. I still love watching all the Christmas specials on TV, Rudolph and who could forget Charlie Brown's Christmas which always reminded us of the real reason for the season. I remember squinting in the bright lights of my Dad's Kodak Camera as He walked around on Christmas morning trying to record on film what was destined to never be forgotten anyway. Who could forget such wonderful memories? For me Jesus is the cause of all of this joy. Even when He is not center stage, He is the stage of everything good about life. He did not sign His name under every rock when He made the world but His presence still permeates every candy cane hung in this Blessed season. 12/14/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

“Christmas! The very word brings joy to our hearts.”

“She gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.” Luke 2

If you ask ten Western people about some of their favorite memories, it would be a good bet that a Christmas memory would be one of them. My dear mother and dad helped make my every Christmas a magical memory. Glittering lights on our aluminum tree, eggnog, candy, presents, leaving cookies for Santa and in my home the annual reading of the Christmas story and the poem, Annie's and Wilie's prayer. I still love watching all the Christmas specials on TV, Rudolph and who could forget Charlie Brown's Christmas which always reminded us of the real reason for the season. I remember squinting in the bright lights of my Dad's Kodak Camera as He walked around on Christmas morning trying to record on film what was destined to never be forgotten anyway. Who could forget such wonderful memories? For me Jesus is the cause of all of this joy. Even when He is not center stage, He is the stage of everything good about life. He did not sign His name under every rock when He made the world but His presence still permeates every candy cane hung in this Blessed season. 12/14/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Thursday, December 22, 2011

“Three phrases that sum up Christmas are: Peace on Earth, Goodwill to Men, and Batteries not Included.” Author Unknown

“Unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies it remains alone but if it dies its brings forth much fruit.” Jesus

There are many things in this world that remind us that this life must pass if we are to be as happy as God intends us to be. No matter how wonderful our celebrations are in this place they will always lack the luster of all that is promised. Batteries are not included, festive lights have to be replaced, toys break, and loved ones fall ill and die even at Christmas time. But all these temporal trials serve to remind us that a more glorious age is coming. The Prince of Peace returns not to renovate and remodel this world but to demolish and replace it with a new one. The same can be said for each of us. The seed must fall to the ground and die before it is raised an eternal harvest. 2/16/11 Conversations Within ts (Chelsea , AL)

“Three phrases that sum up Christmas are: Peace on Earth, Goodwill to Men, and Batteries not Included.” Author Unknown

“Unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies it remains alone but if it dies its brings forth much fruit.” Jesus

There are many things in this world that remind us that this life must pass if we are to be as happy as God intends us to be. No matter how wonderful our celebrations are in this place they will always lack the luster of all that is promised. Batteries are not included, festive lights have to be replaced, toys break, and loved ones fall ill and die even at Christmas time. But all these temporal trials serve to remind us that a more glorious age is coming. The Prince of Peace returns not to renovate and remodel this world but to demolish and replace it with a new one. The same can be said for each of us. The seed must fall to the ground and die before it is raised an eternal harvest. 2/16/11 Conversations Within ts (Chelsea , AL)

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

“The spirit of Christmas fulfills the greatest hunger of mankind.” Loring A. Schuler

“My peace I give you.” Jesus

In the simplest terms Jesus was born to bring peace on earth. Who doesn't want peace. That we want peace pretty much means that we don't have it as a lasting condition. We know moments of it, but like most things in this world, it passes. I tend to be in and out of it, sometimes several times a day. What is emphatic from the teaching of New Testament is that we already have peace with God because of His accomplishments on the cross. The problem is that we don't feel like we do and this spills over on to every thing else. The great test of faith is to ignore our feelings and believe! 2/15/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

“The spirit of Christmas fulfills the greatest hunger of mankind.” Loring A. Schuler

“My peace I give you.” Jesus

In the simplest terms Jesus was born to bring peace on earth. Who doesn't want peace. That we want peace pretty much means that we don't have it as a lasting condition. We know moments of it, but like most things in this world, it passes. I tend to be in and out of it, sometimes several times a day. What is emphatic from the teaching of New Testament is that we already have peace with God because of His accomplishments on the cross. The problem is that we don't feel like we do and this spills over on to every thing else. The great test of faith is to ignore our feelings and believe! 2/15/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

“One of the most glorious messes in the world is the mess created in the living room on Christmas day. Don't clean it up too quickly.” Andy Rooney

“I am the light of the world!” Jesus

It is pure grace how the wonder of Christmas splashes its joy even on people who have never put personal faith in Christ. As the song says without ever mentioning His name, “Its the most wonderful time of the year.” People can't help tapping their toes when they hear good music and the melody of Jesus fills the world every Christmas season. We date our calendars around Him, His birthday is the world's most celebrated holiday. Jesus has left His mark on the world by giving us a season of gift giving, charity, lights and carols. People may try and take Christ out of Christmas but every celebration of family life, loving your enemies, sharing presents and hanging lights is unquestionably what He taught us to do. His influence is the fragrance of love. Trying to take Christ out of Christmas is trying to spell Christmas without the word Christ. 12/13/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

“One of the most glorious messes in the world is the mess created in the living room on Christmas day. Don't clean it up too quickly.” Andy Rooney

“I am the light of the world!” Jesus

It is pure grace how the wonder of Christmas splashes its joy even on people who have never put personal faith in Christ. As the song says without ever mentioning His name, “Its the most wonderful time of the year.” People can't help tapping their toes when they hear good music and the melody of Jesus fills the world every Christmas season. We date our calendars around Him, His birthday is the world's most celebrated holiday. Jesus has left His mark on the world by giving us a season of gift giving, charity, lights and carols. People may try and take Christ out of Christmas but every celebration of family life, loving your enemies, sharing presents and hanging lights is unquestionably what He taught us to do. His influence is the fragrance of love. Trying to take Christ out of Christmas is trying to spell Christmas without the word Christ. 12/13/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Monday, December 19, 2011

If we have ever questioned God's intentions toward mankind, Christmas is His answer.

“And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased." Luke 2 NASB

God's answer to our pride is the humility of Jesus. His answer to our selfishness is His sacrifice. His answer to our rebellious hearts is abounding grace and love. Everyone of us is that prodigal child mentioned in the good book. And what are God's intentions for such a rebellious race? He declares them to the world every Christmas morning; He wants everyone to come home for the celebration. What celebration? Our return of course. 12/12/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

If we have ever questioned God's intentions toward mankind, Christmas is His answer.

“And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased." Luke 2 NASB

God's answer to our pride is the humility of Jesus. His answer to our selfishness is His sacrifice. His answer to our rebellious hearts is abounding grace and love. Everyone of us is that prodigal child mentioned in the good book. And what are God's intentions for such a rebellious race? He declares them to the world every Christmas morning; He wants everyone to come home for the celebration. What celebration? Our return of course. 12/12/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Saturday, December 17, 2011

“To have joy one must share it. Happiness was born a twin.” Lord Byron

“Two are better than one.” Ecc.4

A meal is not a meal if it is not eaten, and joy is not complete if it is not shared. God made us in pairs. It is His kind intention that we not be alone but have family and friends and fellowship. It is a joy to belong. C. S. Lewis put it this way, “I think we delight to praise what we enjoy because the praise not merely expresses but completes the enjoyment; it is its appointed consummation. It is not out of compliment that lovers keep on telling one another how beautiful they are, the delight is incomplete till it is expressed.” 12/10/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

“To have joy one must share it. Happiness was born a twin.” Lord Byron

“Two are better than one.” Ecc.4

A meal is not a meal if it is not eaten, and joy is not complete if it is not shared. God made us in pairs. It is His kind intention that we not be alone but have family and friends and fellowship. It is a joy to belong. C. S. Lewis put it this way, “I think we delight to praise what we enjoy because the praise not merely expresses but completes the enjoyment; it is its appointed consummation. It is not out of compliment that lovers keep on telling one another how beautiful they are, the delight is incomplete till it is expressed.” 12/10/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Friday, December 16, 2011

“Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognize how good things really are.” Marianne Williamson

“...your sorrow will turn into joy.” Jesus

I think the power of joy lies in our focus. No matter what is going on around me where I chose to center my thoughts lives within me. Joy comes to us when we choose to gaze at the kind intentions of God in and through any circumstance. Joy is the companion of a faith which rests in the absolute goodness of God and in His sovereign power to turn adversity into advantage and the worst day into the best. 12/9/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

“Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognize how good things really are.” Marianne Williamson

“...your sorrow will turn into joy.” Jesus

I think the power of joy lies in our focus. No matter what is going on around me where I chose to center my thoughts lives within me. Joy comes to us when we choose to gaze at the kind intentions of God in and through any circumstance. Joy is the companion of a faith which rests in the absolute goodness of God and in His sovereign power to turn adversity into advantage and the worst day into the best. 12/9/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Humans have a great capacity for joy; it is worth considering what brings it to us.

Humans have a great capacity for joy; it is worth considering what brings it to us.

“...the joy of the godless is but for a moment? Job20

Everyone is capable of joy. What is so very telling is what causes us to have it. If I find joy in the suffering of others, say for revenge, or if it is a joy to me to get away with stealing, then my joy is perverted. One brother has said, “It is the stealing of the apple that is bad, not the sweetness.” It is easy to see that there is nothing wrong enjoying the sweetness of an apple but if it is sweet to my soul to steal it, that is a terrible corruption. Augustine confessed that he enjoyed stealing fruit from his neighbor's tree even when he did not care for the fruit. If revenge, or stealing or hurting someone is sweet to the soul then the very soul has gone bad. Monsters are made this way. Of course Augustine is remembered as a godly man which is so very telling of the power of repentance and faith. Grace can work change in our spiritual taste buds. 12/8/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Humans have a great capacity for joy; it is worth considering what brings it to us.

Humans have a great capacity for joy; it is worth considering what brings it to us.

“...the joy of the godless is but for a moment? Job20

Everyone is capable of joy. What is so very telling is what causes us to have it. If I find joy in the suffering of others, say for revenge, or if it is a joy to me to get away with stealing, then my joy is perverted. One brother has said, “It is the stealing of the apple that is bad, not the sweetness.” It is easy to see that there is nothing wrong enjoying the sweetness of an apple but if it is sweet to my soul to steal it, that is a terrible corruption. Augustine confessed that he enjoyed stealing fruit from his neighbor's tree even when he did not care for the fruit. If revenge, or stealing or hurting someone is sweet to the soul then the very soul has gone bad. Monsters are made this way. Of course Augustine is remembered as a godly man which is so very telling of the power of repentance and faith. Grace can work change in our spiritual taste buds. 12/8/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

“As selfishness and complaint pervert the mind, so love with its joy clears and sharpens the vision.” Helen Keller

“Light is sown for the righteous, and joy for the upright in heart.” Ps.97

There is great confidence when you know that you have made the right choice even if there is a measure of suffering for it. Joy always comes to us when we center ourselves on all that is good and right and true. This means that joy, like the sun can rule the day. It can also, like the moon give light to us in the night. There is a quiet joy when we know that we are where God wants us to be. Such joy gives light to our way even in the darkest night 12/7/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

“As selfishness and complaint pervert the mind, so love with its joy clears and sharpens the vision.” Helen Keller

“Light is sown for the righteous, and joy for the upright in heart.” Ps.97

There is great confidence when you know that you have made the right choice even if there is a measure of suffering for it. Joy always comes to us when we center ourselves on all that is good and right and true. This means that joy, like the sun can rule the day. It can also, like the moon give light to us in the night. There is a quiet joy when we know that we are where God wants us to be. Such joy gives light to our way even in the darkest night 12/7/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

“Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others.....

you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.” Eleanor Roosevelt

“It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Jesus

Imagine someone who is always thinking of ways to improve your life; who is always surprising you with some act of kindness. What a blessing it would be to know someone who is always encouraging you, building you up, lending you a helping hand; who is always there for you. What a joy it would be to live in the company of such a person. I can hardly think of anything that would bring me greater joy than to have a friend like that unless of course, I become a friend like that. 12/6/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

“Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others.....

you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.” Eleanor Roosevelt

“It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Jesus

Imagine someone who is always thinking of ways to improve your life; who is always surprising you with some act of kindness. What a blessing it would be to know someone who is always encouraging you, building you up, lending you a helping hand; who is always there for you. What a joy it would be to live in the company of such a person. I can hardly think of anything that would bring me greater joy than to have a friend like that unless of course, I become a friend like that. 12/6/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Monday, December 12, 2011

Christian formula for lasting happiness; Jesus Others You!

“I have told you these things that my joy may be in you and your joy made full.” Jesus

From a Christian point of view, happiness is one of those things where proper priorities are important. When we choose to put God first and others before ourselves we are promised lasting happiness. We might wonder that if we do this to be happy then aren't we really putting our self first. Well in one sense, certainly we are! We must truly love ourselves before we can properly love God or anyone else. God doesn't mind if we seek happiness, He has wired it into our makeup. Jesus is not telling us not to make our joy a priority, He is telling us how we can best achieve it. He is telling us that it is wrong to seek only our own happiness. No one can be totally selfless, but we can certainly avoid being totally selfish. 12/5/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Christian formula for lasting happiness; Jesus Others You!

“I have told you these things that my joy may be in you and your joy made full.” Jesus

From a Christian point of view, happiness is one of those things where proper priorities are important. When we choose to put God first and others before ourselves we are promised lasting happiness. We might wonder that if we do this to be happy then aren't we really putting our self first. Well in one sense, certainly we are! We must truly love ourselves before we can properly love God or anyone else. God doesn't mind if we seek happiness, He has wired it into our makeup. Jesus is not telling us not to make our joy a priority, He is telling us how we can best achieve it. He is telling us that it is wrong to seek only our own happiness. No one can be totally selfless, but we can certainly avoid being totally selfish. 12/5/11 Conversations Within ts (Jacksonville , FL)

Saturday, December 10, 2011

“Love is the greatest touch-up artist of all.” Robert Brault,

“Love is the greatest touch-up artist of all.” Robert Brault,

“Pursue love.” 1Cor.14 ESV

Love is always in the details. We don't love people in a general way, we love them in particulars. The other day my brother invited me to go sit with him while he went hunting. We had carried two stadium chairs to put in the stand for comfort. One was of them was broken so you could not lean back in it. When I climbed up into the stand after my brother I noticed that he had given me the good chair. It is not just in big sacrifices that we show love but in small things, deliberately expressed everyday, year after year until the seed becomes the tree. The funny thing about love is that we begin to love whoever we purposefully serve. If I start showing kindness to a friend, a co-worker, a stranger and even an enemy my heart will follow and my love will grow. 12/3/11 Conversations Within ts (Shenandoah , AL)

“Love is the greatest touch-up artist of all.” Robert Brault,

“Love is the greatest touch-up artist of all.” Robert Brault,

“Pursue love.” 1Cor.14 ESV

Love is always in the details. We don't love people in a general way, we love them in particulars. The other day my brother invited me to go sit with him while he went hunting. We had carried two stadium chairs to put in the stand for comfort. One was of them was broken so you could not lean back in it. When I climbed up into the stand after my brother I noticed that he had given me the good chair. It is not just in big sacrifices that we show love but in small things, deliberately expressed everyday, year after year until the seed becomes the tree. The funny thing about love is that we begin to love whoever we purposefully serve. If I start showing kindness to a friend, a co-worker, a stranger and even an enemy my heart will follow and my love will grow. 12/3/11 Conversations Within ts (Shenandoah , AL)

Friday, December 9, 2011

“Love is a game that two can play and both win.” Eva Gabor

“Love your neighbor as yourself.” Jesus

When I first heard the idea of working for a “Win Win” in relationships I thought it was a contradiction to the teachings of Jesus to turn the other cheek. But I realize now that if I lose and my partner always wins then ultimately my partner is the one losing. If we are committed to our partners highest good then we simply can not allow this. If our partner is to win, we must help them see the importance of loving others as much as they love themselves and this may mean refusing to let them take advantage of us. Of course there are times when we may choose to turn the cheek if for no other reason than to communicate the same message. The Spirit will help us decide when and what response is best. 12/2/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“Love is a game that two can play and both win.” Eva Gabor

“Love your neighbor as yourself.” Jesus

When I first heard the idea of working for a “Win Win” in relationships I thought it was a contradiction to the teachings of Jesus to turn the other cheek. But I realize now that if I lose and my partner always wins then ultimately my partner is the one losing. If we are committed to our partners highest good then we simply can not allow this. If our partner is to win, we must help them see the importance of loving others as much as they love themselves and this may mean refusing to let them take advantage of us. Of course there are times when we may choose to turn the cheek if for no other reason than to communicate the same message. The Spirit will help us decide when and what response is best. 12/2/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Thursday, December 8, 2011

“Love one another and you will be happy. It's as simple and as difficult as that.” Michael Leunig

“And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment...” Phil.1.9

Everyday is another day to love and to be loved. Surely there is no better life than to spend your day loving people. And, we could also say that there are times when nothing can be more difficult. This is why our love must mature in wisdom. Love seeks what is the best for those we love, wisdom shows us the best way to love them. What value is there in knowing what is best but failing to achieve it because of the wrong approach. Of course we can learn wisdom by trial and error, what we could call the hit and miss approach or we could use a better approach and just ask God for it. He has promised to give wisdom to those who ask. His greatest command directs us to our greatest need and that is to look to Him for the greatest results. 12/1/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“Love one another and you will be happy. It's as simple and as difficult as that.” Michael Leunig

“And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment...” Phil.1.9

Everyday is another day to love and to be loved. Surely there is no better life than to spend your day loving people. And, we could also say that there are times when nothing can be more difficult. This is why our love must mature in wisdom. Love seeks what is the best for those we love, wisdom shows us the best way to love them. What value is there in knowing what is best but failing to achieve it because of the wrong approach. Of course we can learn wisdom by trial and error, what we could call the hit and miss approach or we could use a better approach and just ask God for it. He has promised to give wisdom to those who ask. His greatest command directs us to our greatest need and that is to look to Him for the greatest results. 12/1/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

“The art of love... is largely the art of persistence.” Albert Ellis

“Love bears all things.” 1Cor.13

Love is a commitment to seek the highest good of the people in our lives. This means that we must often be tenacious at it. I do not mean this in a pestering sort of way, but a patient one. Love bears all things, it puts up with a great deal in order to act in someones best interest. Love will suffer abuse, insult, even persecution if these things are necessary to benefit the ones we are seeking to love. Jesus of course is our example in this. Christmas pictures for us the great lengths that God will go to secure our highest good. Why else would God dress up like a human, and walk our fragmented world. 11/30/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“The art of love... is largely the art of persistence.” Albert Ellis

“Love bears all things.” 1Cor.13

Love is a commitment to seek the highest good of the people in our lives. This means that we must often be tenacious at it. I do not mean this in a pestering sort of way, but a patient one. Love bears all things, it puts up with a great deal in order to act in someones best interest. Love will suffer abuse, insult, even persecution if these things are necessary to benefit the ones we are seeking to love. Jesus of course is our example in this. Christmas pictures for us the great lengths that God will go to secure our highest good. Why else would God dress up like a human, and walk our fragmented world. 11/30/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

“Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.” Peter Ustinov

“Forgive.” Jesus

When you love someone, forgiveness will be a regular privilege. I say privilege because overlooking an offense is a necessary step to serve them and all service is a privilege. Jesus tells us it is because anytime we serve someone, He says that we are serving Him. Is there any greater privilege than that? When love matures there is even joy in pardoning, not in the offense mind you but because we have yet another opportunity to seek someones highest good. 11/29/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.” Peter Ustinov

“Forgive.” Jesus

When you love someone, forgiveness will be a regular privilege. I say privilege because overlooking an offense is a necessary step to serve them and all service is a privilege. Jesus tells us it is because anytime we serve someone, He says that we are serving Him. Is there any greater privilege than that? When love matures there is even joy in pardoning, not in the offense mind you but because we have yet another opportunity to seek someones highest good. 11/29/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Monday, December 5, 2011

“Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love.” - Hamilton Wright Mabi

“God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3.16

Last year, during the Christmas Season, my wife and I stopped to get a Starbuck's coffee. When we pulled up to the window to pay, the attendant inside told us that the person in front of us had already paid for our order. The Spirit of Christmas inspires such acts of kindness which is to say that the Spirit of Jesus is working in people. I am absolutely certain that acts of love and kindness have the power to make a Christmas out of everyday of the year. “God is love, those who abide in love abide in God and God in them.” If we want more of God, it is as simple as loving people. 11/28/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

“Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love.” - Hamilton Wright Mabi

“God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3.16

Last year, during the Christmas Season, my wife and I stopped to get a Starbuck's coffee. When we pulled up to the window to pay, the attendant inside told us that the person in front of us had already paid for our order. The Spirit of Christmas inspires such acts of kindness which is to say that the Spirit of Jesus is working in people. I am absolutely certain that acts of love and kindness have the power to make a Christmas out of everyday of the year. “God is love, those who abide in love abide in God and God in them.” If we want more of God, it is as simple as loving people. 11/28/11 Conversations Within ts (Birmingham, AL)

Saturday, December 3, 2011

May God help us to see through every disguised blessing.

“Your God turned the curse into a blessing for you, because the LORD your God loved you.” Deut.23.5

We all know that blessings are often hidden in difficulty. Faith teaches us how to penetrate the disguise. One reason is to help us persuade our heart to endure the trial and allow it to benefit us. Faith turns every obstacle into opportunity. But we must learn how to manage our doubts and let faith have that perfect work. If I tell myself that my present adversity is a scalpel in God's hand to heal me and not a knife in an enemies hand to hurt me, I will stop trying to squirm off the operating table. Easier said than done but it can be done if we talk, even argue ourselves out of moments of doubt and fear into a clear apprehension of God's good and gracious intentions towards us. Do I believe God is in control? Do I believe He loves me? Do I believe that no matter what comes He can use it for my good? Believe it! See it! Endure and embrace it! 11/25/11 Conversations Within ts (Between, GA)

May God help us to see through every disguised blessing.

“Your God turned the curse into a blessing for you, because the LORD your God loved you.” Deut.23.5

We all know that blessings are often hidden in difficulty. Faith teaches us how to penetrate the disguise. One reason is to help us persuade our heart to endure the trial and allow it to benefit us. Faith turns every obstacle into opportunity. But we must learn how to manage our doubts and let faith have that perfect work. If I tell myself that my present adversity is a scalpel in God's hand to heal me and not a knife in an enemies hand to hurt me, I will stop trying to squirm off the operating table. Easier said than done but it can be done if we talk, even argue ourselves out of moments of doubt and fear into a clear apprehension of God's good and gracious intentions towards us. Do I believe God is in control? Do I believe He loves me? Do I believe that no matter what comes He can use it for my good? Believe it! See it! Endure and embrace it! 11/25/11 Conversations Within ts (Between, GA)

Friday, December 2, 2011

“If God sends you down a stony path, may he give you strong shoes.”

"I will never leave you nor forsake you." God (Heb.13)

I am never alone. Even when I am alone I am not alone; God is always there. I guess it is a grace that I have always been aware of it, I even take it for granted. I am not always appreciative of His presence, I may even be angry with Him for some short sighted reason but even in those moments I know that He is there and not in some generic way, but in a personal one. Sometimes I think He is just standing there doing nothing to help me. These feelings never last long. I eventually realize that His being there is help enough. He patiently helps me to focus, to accept His help even though it may not be the kind of help that I want. Usually my self-induced trauma will settle and I realize that He is not only there but He is always there for a good reason, that He is not just there, but personally committed and attending to my highest good. 11/24/11 Conversations Within ts (Between, GA)

“If God sends you down a stony path, may he give you strong shoes.”

"I will never leave you nor forsake you." God (Heb.13)

I am never alone. Even when I am alone I am not alone; God is always there. I guess it is a grace that I have always been aware of it, I even take it for granted. I am not always appreciative of His presence, I may even be angry with Him for some short sighted reason but even in those moments I know that He is there and not in some generic way, but in a personal one. Sometimes I think He is just standing there doing nothing to help me. These feelings never last long. I eventually realize that His being there is help enough. He patiently helps me to focus, to accept His help even though it may not be the kind of help that I want. Usually my self-induced trauma will settle and I realize that He is not only there but He is always there for a good reason, that He is not just there, but personally committed and attending to my highest good. 11/24/11 Conversations Within ts (Between, GA)

Thursday, December 1, 2011

May the road rise up to meet you.

May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields.... Unless of course you need a kick in the seat of your pants.

“Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons.” Heb.12

Who does not appreciate times of ease and gracious seasons of prosperity and health. But living on easy street may not always be in our best interest, especially if we have grown complacent about spiritual matters. Sometimes God lavishly spoils us like a grandparent but He certainly disciplines us as a parent. Thank Him that He does. I do not think He does this to punish for punishments sake but to prune us of things holding us back from growing up into Christ. He inspires us to greater spiritual heights. Sometimes this may mean a kick in the seat of the pants to get us moving. 11/22/11 Conversations Within ts (Between, GA)

May the road rise up to meet you.

May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields.... Unless of course you need a kick in the seat of your pants.

“Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons.” Heb.12

Who does not appreciate times of ease and gracious seasons of prosperity and health. But living on easy street may not always be in our best interest, especially if we have grown complacent about spiritual matters. Sometimes God lavishly spoils us like a grandparent but He certainly disciplines us as a parent. Thank Him that He does. I do not think He does this to punish for punishments sake but to prune us of things holding us back from growing up into Christ. He inspires us to greater spiritual heights. Sometimes this may mean a kick in the seat of the pants to get us moving. 11/22/11 Conversations Within ts (Between, GA)