Kindness is an unconditional virtue. One can always choose to express it. We do not have to approve of someone's behavior to show it. We do not have to support foolish behavior, but we can still be kind. Do not place limits on kindness. What is needed is wisdom. Wisdom can shape our kindness so that it is truly beneficial.
“Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” Prov. 27.6 “Conversations Within” ts 3/23/2021
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Sometimes we fail to show love and compassion to others because we are caught up with our own struggles and pain. It is the testimony of many that one of the best ways we can forget our own problems is to bring refreshment to others in theirs.
“...the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Jesus “Conversations Within” ts 3/22/2021
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We practice compassion not just by feeling it, but by showing it. We may feel another's pain, yet do nothing to alleviate it. True compassion doesn’t just appreciate the burden another is carrying, it moves us to come alongside and help shoulder it.
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.“ Conversations Within” ts 3/21/2021
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To live compassionately, we must not only see the pain others are going through, we must often overlook the pain that their pain is causing us. This means many times that we must nurture a forgiving attitude. One way to do this is to remember our own need of forgiveness and that God gives it to us every day. Beyond forgiveness, we can then express compassion with a kindness that seeks to alleviate another’s pain.
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." — Eph. 4:32“Conversations Within” ts 3/20/2021
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When love motivates us to adapt and be flexible, it is not simply seeking what is good for oneself, but looking out for another’s benefit as well. Instead of an insisting and demanding spirit, love looks for ways to serve others. "The heart of the wise teaches his mouth, And adds persuasiveness to his lips."
“Love... does not insist on its own way.” 1Cor.13 “Conversations Within” ts 3/19/2021
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