Take whatever measures are necessary to protect the health of your connections to the people you love. Your relationship with God, your marriage, your children, and your friendships are the matters that matter most. Build walls of protection around them. Insure your integrity by doing whatever is needed to insure your commitments. Never put yourself in a position that could even temp you to compromise your promises to the people you love.
"The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their double dealing." Prov.11.3 Conversations Within” ts 9/24/2019