There are always things we cannot change, but we can change our attitude about them and our response to them. I should think that our attitude is the most important of the two. A person can open an umbrella when it rains but still allow the rain to dampen their spirits. When we have the right attitude, well, we just might decide to enjoy a walk in the rain.
“Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus...” Phil.2 Conversations Within” ts 3/1/2016