“Don’t feel bad if people remember you only when they need you. Feel privileged that you are like a candle that comes to their mind when there is darkness.” Anonymous

 People will use you. Let them. I am not saying that we should let people abuse us, but to be useful to others is a wonderful way to live life. A part of the patience of love is that we can think about serving others for our own reasons not someone else's. Assign greater value to service not selfishness.  

“...in humility value others above yourselves…”  Phil.2.3 “Conversations Within” ts 2/1/2021