“The light of the eyes rejoices the heart.” Prov15.30 ESV
Most have heard the litmus test of having a positive or negative attitude; “Is the glass half full or half empty?” There is little doubt that our attitude plays a major roll in life and that making a conscious choice to see opportunities where others see obstacles can indeed be a good thing. But it is unrealistic even unhealthy to burden ourselves with trying to be positive when a situation calls us to express, remorse or grief or even righteous anger. Of course some would say these expressions can be constructive and therefore are positive. No doubt this is true, but don’t confuse positive with feeling happy. The notion that we need to feel “happy” all the time when there are many reasons in this world not to, can keep us from learning the lessons that sorrow can teach. "For the moment no discipline seems joyous but afterwards leaves the peaceful fruit of righteousness." The light of this understanding and the knowledge that God works all things together for good will ultimately rejoice the heart even though we may go through a season of weeping. Be where you are and let the grace of God lead you forward. 8/15/2008 ts