“There's a world of difference between insisting on someone's doing something and establishing an atmosphere in which that person can grow into wanting to do it.” Fred Rogers

 Make room for others to think, act and feel differently than you do. When we expect people to process life the same way or at the same time that we do we can stir strife into the mix. Just because I am ready to make up after an argument does not mean that my partner is. Deal with it by dealing with your own attitudes and actions, and leaving others to deal with their's. The actions of love should be directed toward ourselves before we can express them toward others. Patience tops the list. 

“Love is patient, love is kind…”1Cor.13 Conversations Within” ts 7/20/2019